也说空间那点事

作者:耿俊林人气:2010更新:2021-07-19 10:00:08

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来网易之后 ,我很少主动添加好友,并不是我故作矜持和有多清高,实在是因为自己时间和精力有限 ,红尘中还是有很多俗事要忙,毕竟上网只是生活的一个极细小的部分;(我相信,绝大部分朋友同我一样 ,有工作,有家庭,有的还有孩子和老人的事情要忙) ,依个人的性格而言 ,自己感觉既然加为好朋友最起码的礼貌还是应该有的,礼尚往来也是应该的,再者 ,朋友发了文章,总要仔细看一下,马马虎虎 ,敷衍了事,也不是自己的性格,如果敷衍了事的阅读 ,总感觉对朋友的劳动果实好像不太尊重 。
所以,目前我的空间原则上不再添加好朋友。


2.
有加为好朋友之后没有任何交流的,身影杳渺如黄鹤的 ,对不起,一概删除。
加为好朋友之后,自身空间设限 ,完全屏蔽的 ,不允许任何人进入和看到的,对不起,一概删除 。(当然也不排除有特殊情况)


3.
网络复杂 ,世间百态,各种面目,林林总总 ,久了,自己也发现了许多不和谐音符。
前一段时间,有几个空间燃起了战火 ,甲乙双方邀本人去助阵或者明辨是非,我想说的是:我对此不感兴趣,在我个人档案下的邀约留言 ,一概删除。
我想说的是,无论做人还是做事,都要有底线才可以 ,不可肆意妄为 ,不可无中生有,不可侮辱诽谤,不可蓄意中伤 。
即便是对方有做的不对的地方 ,做的不完美的地方,也应该心平气和的把事情的原委说清楚,平等的对话 ,争取最大的理解和沟通。但凡是一个正常的成年人,都对这个世界有自己独特的判断和思维,谁是谁非 ,我也相信大家心中自然会有一杆秤,会取舍,也会衡量出一个人的对与错。


4.
前一段时间 ,接到这样几则留言:由于博友已满,真诚邀请您在我的博客大头贴下,加博友栏内添加我为博友!
回访一看 ,好家伙这位仁兄朋友好几千 ,呵呵,我想说的是,您朋友两三千 ,何必在乎我一个啊,我加您为博友干什么?给您刷流量啊,这种事情是我要干的吗?就我空间目前60多位好朋友 ,有时候我还觉着自己的精力不够用呢,您自己玩去吧,在此 ,我谢谢你的信任了 。


5.
来网易之后受到一些圈子的邀请,我在此先对你们的信任表示最真诚的感谢,我暂不加入任何圈子;如果以后有意向和兴趣的话 ,我再麻烦你们 。


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凡加本人为关注的朋友,我提一个建议:你们的空间最好是开放的,不设限的。
有很多朋友加我关注 ,去回访 ,要么是空白一片;要么是你没有权限查看浏览。大家开博客不就是图个交流和快乐吗,
都包裹的严严实实的,还有什么意思?真诚的交流和探讨又从何谈起呢??
当然 ,这只是我个人的建议,听不听,在你们了;我再补充一句话:你们的地盘你们做主 ,我尊重你们 。


7.
潜水访问空间的事情,在我看来正常,我也表示理解;
我空间的文章(尤其是原创文章)有朋友如果喜欢 ,尽可以转载,不告知我也是可以的,甚至 ,略加删减署上你的名字,我也表示理解;当然,你们要是注明出处那我更欢迎!我来空间就是码码字 ,好玩 ,快乐一下,是最终目的,其它 ,都不重要!


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文字,是一个空间的灵魂,这也是决定我是否添加好朋友的最主要的标准。
所以 ,以转载为主的空间,一般意义我不添加好朋友。请理解 。


9.
文字只是文字,很多时候与心情无关 ,请不要做其它联想,更不要联系自身;
一切的美好,快乐 ,遗憾,甚或不快,都始自文字;
那么 ,就让一切的美好 ,快乐,遗憾,甚或不快 ,都止于文字吧!
适当的距离永远是保持美丽的源泉。


 

英译版本:

After coming to NetEase, I rarely actively add friends, not my sole, I have a lot of high, because my time and energy are limited, there is still a lot of common things in the red dust, after all Internet is just a very small part of life; (I believe that most of the friends are like me, having work, family, some children and the elderly things are busy), according to individual character, I feel Since adding as a good friend, the right courtesy should be, the gift is also there, and then, the friend has sent an article, always take a closer look, Ma Ma Tiger, perfunctory, nor the personality, if it is perfunctory Reading, I always feel that the labor fruit of my friend does not seem to respect.
So, my space is currently no longer adding good friends.

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There is no communication for good friends, and the figure is like a yellow crane, sorry, and delete.
After adding as a good friend, the space is limited, fully shielded, and no one is allowed to enter and see, sorry, one removal. (Of course, there is also a special case)

3.

The network is complex, the world is all-state, all kinds of faces, Lin Lin's total, for a long time, I also found a lot of non-harmonious characters.
A few times, there were several space ignited the war, and the two parties were invited by the people to help out, and I would like to say: I am not interested in this, in my personal file, the invitation message, one removal.
What I want to say is that no matter what people still do things, they must have the bottom line. You can't be free, you can't be born, you can't insult, you can't deliberately hurt.
Even if the other party has the wrong place, the imperfect place should also be confident, equally dialogue, and strive for maximum understanding and communication. However, all normal adults have their own unique judgments and thinking about the world. Who is who is not, I also believe that there will be a scales in my heart, I will pay, and I will measure a person's right and wrong.

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The previous period of time, received such a message: Since the blogger is full, sincerely invite you to post it in my blog, add the biboya columnI am a blogger!

Going back to visit, a good guy is a good friend, huh, huh, I want to say, your friend is two thousand, why should I care about me, what do I add you for your blogger? Give you a traffic, is this kind of thing I want to do? In my space, there are more than 60 good friends, sometimes I still feel that my energy is not enough, you can play it yourself, here, I thank you for your trust.

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After returning to NetEase, I am the most sincere gratitude to your trust in this first, I will not add any circles; if you have intention and interest If you, I will trouble you.

6.
Any friend who is paying attention to, I will mention a suggestion: your space is preferably open, not limited.
There are many friends to add me to pay attention, go back to visit, or blank; either you have no authority to view browsing. If you open a blog, it is not a picture of communication and happiness.

is the strict and realistic, what do you mean? What is the sincere communication and discussion? ?

Of course, this is just my personal suggestion, I don't listen, in you; I added a word: Your site you are the Lord, I respect you.


Dive access to space, I also expressed understanding;
My space article (especially original articles) If you like, if you like, do your best It can be reproduced, don't inform me, or even I am coming to space is a code code, fun, happy, is the ultimate goal, others are not important!

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Text is a spatial soul, which is also the most important standard that I decided to add good friends.
So, in the amount of space, the general sense, I don't add good friends. Please understand that.

9.

The text is just a text, many times have nothing to do with the mood, please don't do other Lenovo, don't contact it;

Everything is beautiful, happy, regret, or even unhappy, Originate
So, let everything is beautiful, happy, regret, or even unhappy, it will stop in the text!
The appropriate distance is always a beautiful source.


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