特别的日子(201314),献给爱着或者等爱的人们

作者:轩辕凡曼人气:1289更新:2021-07-18 20:00:13

 冬天里的寒气很是逼人,听说俄罗斯的什么地方已经达到了摄氏零下六十多度 ,不知道消息是不是准确。不过据网上报道 ,坝上的温度已经达到了摄氏零下四十多度,这倒是真的,现在这里的气温也不高 ,站立夜幕下的寒风中,身心有些紧缩颤栗进而疼痛,这温度已经不乐观了 。

        常常听这首曲子 ,思念的时候,伤心的时候,长夜无眠的时候 ,静谧的夜孤寂的时候 。一个人,一盏孤灯,让受伤的心流着泪 ,滴着血,这感觉就好像失心疯,疼痛着 ,心空了 ,冷了,那无情的疼痛一刻不停地切割着神经,寒流袭遍全身 ,顿时,血凝了,陷入了神思 ,感悟伶仃,感悟人的本性,贴近友情 ,更多的感悟爱情。。 。

         人是情感的动物,为爱而生,为爱儿灭 ,每个人都渴望着永恒的爱情,真挚的友情,温暖的亲情 ,得之珍惜 ,失之呢?也许是一件痛彻心扉之事,但也许是一件好事。

 

        一个真正爱你的人,也许会让你苦上一阵子 ,你痛对方也会疼,两情相悦,两心相知 ,无论在不在一处,也无关是季节轮回。但真爱的人无论如何不会人为地让你去疼,更不会让你痛苦很久 ,除非这个人不爱你 。

        面对一个真心爱自己的人,很少有人无动于衷,有爱心的人面对爱自己的人会用心给以温暖的关怀 ,即便是这个人不是自己心里的那个人,也会尊重对方的感情,不会肆意地伤害对方 ,因为 ,我心本善良。善良的人温暖,心态平和,宽厚仁慈 ,善解人意,体谅他人,懂得站在对方的立场上去理解别人 ,有爱人之心,更有悲天悯人之情怀。这样的人又怎么会忍心伤害爱自己的人呢?但对于个别意图不轨之人才有不同的举措 。

       当然,性本恶者也是有的。就像狼性不泯的人 ,这样的人只看重自己的猎物,一旦锁定目标,是不会轻易罢手的。对于妨碍者更是不会放过 ,冷血无情是他们的本性,伤害也就成为了必然 。

       还有一种人,他们介于善恶之间 ,游走不定。在他们的骨质里 ,顽劣的一面表现在利益纷争上比较明显。这种人的一双眼睛经常盯着别人的不是,看不到自己的错,更有拿着不是当理说的时候 。这种人即便是知道自己有错 ,也不会轻易的认错,他们容易偏执辩不清是非,习惯了用挑剔的眼光看人 ,经常出现不顾及他人的感受,不会在乎别人的想法,愿意主观臆断刚愎自用 ,想问题往往以自己为中心,一旦痴迷就容易受他人的蛊惑而失去往日的精明,伤害也就在所难免了 。对于这样的人 ,我们还是原谅他们吧,因为,他们也很可怜 ,他们是真的不懂。

 

       爱一个人 ,掏出了一个心,而对方却视而不见听而不闻,甚至做些你所不希望的事情 ,那么这个人还值不值得你去爱,这个时候应该考虑对方的真诚有多少,该放就放了吧 ,随缘吧!缘是什么?缘就是命,就是机遇。份是什么?份是后天的变数,也是人们努力的一种结果 。不是有那么一首歌叫做《爱不在了就放手》吗。早放手 ,早解脱,早给自己多些选择的机会,也可以说是让在前方等你的人少受些等待的煎熬。人  ,哭也一辈子,笑,也一辈子 ,何不坦然面对生活中的如意与不如意 ,恬淡一生,潇洒一世,如是便是逍遥的人生 。

       痴心虽好 ,不能拥有的时候,在得不到珍惜的时候,甚至得不到理解与尊重的时候 ,痴心就是幼稚,痴心就是自残。

        爱情美好,真爱难得。朋友虽好 ,知己难求 。不是难求就不求,牵了手的手就要勇敢的往前走,风雨同走 ,苦乐相守到白头。

      人生中,如若遇到真正值得托付感情的人,一定要学会珍惜; 如若遇不到 ,也可以一世孤单 ,与青灯为伴,慎独省心,无惧享受孤独。切不可苟且或者强求 ,宁缺毋滥 。古人云:男怕务错行,女怕嫁错郎。嫁人是这个道理,选择朋友情同此理。对待选择问题 ,慎重是硬道理 。

 

              今天是2013年01月04日,人们说是相爱的人们表达爱情的日子,爱了就爱一生 ,爱你一生一世 。两情相悦又岂在朝朝暮暮,那么成不成眷属也不是问题。爱是一回事,婚姻又是一回事。就像朋友有分别 ,而知己最难得 。这里只说爱情,心相牵,真爱无绝期!

       这个世界上真的有相爱一生一世的吗?我相信有的 ,也许只是少吧 ,我想我们会是这样的。

       写到这里,我忽然想起了这首曲子恒定的名字《痴心无死》。

 

      下面紫陌想以一首小诗《痴心无死劲草心》献给真爱的人们,祝你一生快乐幸福!

     痴心无死劲草心

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      子时更深

     是夜也是晨

     一弯皓月

     天涯相伴玉一轮

     你我为半径

     风云握笔天地琴

     画一个你

     画一个我

     劲草铿锵人惜真

     笑傲冰雪

     辞旧迎新又逢春

     左手握右手

     痴心无死不离分

     迟暮帷幄

     定乾坤

 

 

英译版本:

The cold in winter is very pressing. I heard that Russia has reached more than 60 degrees Celsius, I don't know if the news is accurate. However, according to the Internet, the temperature on the dam has reached 40 degrees Celsius, this is true, now the temperature here is not high, standing in the cold wind under the night, the body and mind have a little tight slider, this temperature has already Not optimistic.

When I often listen to this song, when I miss, when I was sad, when I slept, the quiet night was lonely. A person, a solitary lamp, let the injured heart tears, drop blood, this feeling is like being crazy, painful, heart, cold, the ruthless pain is always cut, cold flow Turned all over the body, suddenly, blood coagulation, caught in the mind, feeling the nature, feeling close to friendship, more feelings. . .

People are emotional animals, born for love, for love, every person is eager to eternal love, sincere friendship, warm family, cherish, lose? Maybe it is a painful thing, but maybe a good thing.

A person who truly loves you may make you suffer, you will hurt each other, two feelings, all know each other, no matter what It is also not to be a season reincarnation. But in any case, people will make you pain, no matter how long it is painful, unless this person doesn't love you.

Facing a person who is really loved to love, few people are indifferent, people who have love face to love their own people will give warm concern, even if this person is not the person in his own, Will respect each other's feelings, will not hurt each other because I am feeling good. The kind people are warm, the mentality is peaceful, generous, and understanding others, understanding others, knowing how to stand on the other side, understand others, have the heart of love, and more sadness. How can this person be willing to hurt people who love themselves? But there are different initiatives for individual intentions.

Of course, sexual evils are also. Just like a wolf, such a person only value his prey, once the target is locked, it will not be easy to stop. forThe hinders will not let go, and the cold blood is ruthless is their nature, and the damage will become inevitable.

There is also a kind of person, they are between the good and evils, and they are guilty. In their bones, the bad side is more obvious in terms of interest disputes. A pair of eyes of this person often stares at others, can't see your own fault, and it is not a way to say. This kind of person even knows that he is wrong, it will not be easy to admit mistake, they are easy to definitely, they are used to see people with picky eyes, often do not care about others, will not care about others, willing Subjective, I used to be self-used, I thought the problem was often centered on my own. Once I was obsessed, I lost my eyes for the temptation of others, and the damage was inevitable. For such people, we still forgive them, because they are very pitiful, they really don't understand.

Love a person, take a heart, but the other party will turn it without hearing, and even do something you don't want, then this person is worthy of you, this When you should consider the sincerity of the other party, let's put it, let's follow it! What is the edge? The fate is life, it is an opportunity. What is it? The number of changes in the day is also a result of people's efforts. No, there is such a song called "Love is not in it," Early, early, early, have a chance to give yourself more, or say that it is to wait for your people waiting for you to suffer. People, crying and laughing, laughing, also in a lifetime, not calmly face the wishfulness and unsatisfactory life in life, bleak life, is a world, if it is a happy life.

Although it is good, when you can't have it, when you don't cherish, you can't even understand and respect, you will be childish, you are self-disabling.

Love is good, true love is rare. Although friends are good, they are hard to find. It's not hard to seek, and if you take your hand, you have to go forward, the wind and rain are walking, and the bitter is guarded to the white head.

In life, if you encounter a person who is really worthy of your feelings, you must learn to cherish it; if you can't encounter, you can be alone in the world, with the blue light as a companion, cautious and worry, enjoy the lonely. Do not want to or want, Ning deficiency. The ancients cloud: Men is afraid of a wrong bank, the woman is afraid to marry the wrong. Marrying is this truth, choosing friends feelings. Treat the problem, cautious is the hard truth.

Today is January 4, 2013. People say that people love the love days, love, love your life, love you forever. The two love is in the face of the DPRK, so it is not a problem. Love is a matter, marriage is another thing. Just like friends, it is the most difficult. Here is only love, your heart is holding, true love!

Does this world really love each other? I believe there, maybe just less, I think we will be like this.

Writing here, I suddenly remembered that the constant name "Identity" was "infatuated".

The following Zi Mo wants to dedicate people from the true love with a small poem "I am infatuated, I wish you a happy life!

Infatuation without death

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When the child

is also the night Morning

Tianya accompanied jade

You and I have a radius

Fengyun Handshake Tiandiqin

painted one You

Draw a

草 铿 铿 人

傲 冰雪

Resigning the old and welcoming the spring

left hand Hold the right hand

Infession is not dead

late

Ding Qiankun

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