父母那点心事

作者:上官火德人气:2656更新:2021-07-14 22:00:11

  父母不在身边 ,少不了几个电话问候 ,以聊天为主,不过就是注意身体 、按时吃药之类的,这是儿女份内事儿 ,不用交代,说自私一点儿,父母健康不也是自己的福分吗?病病灾灾的 ,父母受罪,儿女受累,即使算小九九 ,那也是再怎么算也划不来的,何况父母恩情不能算计呢?

        那天给父母通电话,电话那头是父亲 ,无外乎天气如何,小黑熊如何,快说再见时 ,听父亲旁边的母亲提及伟浩(我的儿子) ,说是为儿子在上海买鞋之类的事情,在我听来这是老生常谈了,每年父母对于伟浩的关心让我有些麻木 ,好像是天经地义,到最后,父亲说该来电话的都来电话了 ,就伟浩没有,言外之意是作为孙子的伟浩怎么就没有对他们的一声问候呢?父亲没说那么明白,但我听出来了 ,是啊!儿子的电话是没有孙子的幸福感强啊!我怎么以前没有想到呢?

        是我的错,儿子最起码的礼节也让我忽视了,这种电话绝不是无所谓的客套 ,而是一份关心一份温暖,试想如果你的热心热肺换来不言不语的漠视式的不表态,你也是绝对的不爽 ,看来儿子这方面的不到位是我的责任 ,我要在这面留点意,万不可因为血缘关系的亲近而忽略了对亲情的呵护!

        父母现在仍然自食其力,没有给我们子女任何压力 ,每次关心不过口头表达而已,一个电话他们就心满意足,儿女平安 ,他们就坦然,儿女磕磕绊绊,他们自然也焦虑万分 ,儿女的生存状态与父母的健康状况息息相关,为了父母的健康我们给他们几个电话不是最起码的亲情呵护吗?

         不要说忙,不要说忘记了 ,不要忽视父母的感受,再冠冕的莫须有借口对父母都是伤害,难道父母一降再降的亲情标准都得给我们的自私让路吗?那我们还是人吗?我们又怎么为人父母?

         一个电话 ,父母给我补了一堂课 ,儿子这堂课我自然也要补上!

英译版本:

Parents are not around, less than a few phone greetings, based on chat, but pay attention to the body, take medicine on time, this is the children in the children, don't explain, say from private, parents are healthy Do you have your own blessing? Sick disasters, parents are sinful, children are involved, even if they are small nineteen, then what is wrong, not to come, not to mention the parents?

Toning the parents that day, the phone is the father, there is no extraordinary weather, how small black bear, when I say goodbye, listen to the mother next to my father mentioned Wei Hao (my son), said yes For the son to buy shoes in Shanghai, I have heard this is a often talking. Every year, my parents have a little numbness for Wei Hao, it seems to be the sky, and the father said that the phone said that it is called. It is not that Wei Hao, how is the meaning of as grandson, did not greet them? My father didn't say so much, but I heard it, yeah! The phone of my son is the happiness of the grandson! How did I not think about it?

It is my fault, the son's minimum etiquette also makes me ignore, this phone is never a guest consisting, but a warmth of concern, if your enthusiasm is not exchanged If you don't speak, you are absolutely unhappy. It seems that your son is not in this regard is my responsibility. I want to leave it in this face, you can't ignore your family because of your blood relationship. Care!

Parents are still self-sufficient, did not give us any pressure, every time they care, but they are full of mouth, they are full of heart, their children are safe, they are calm, they are naturally anxious, they are naturally anxious, children The survival status is closely related to the parents' health. For the parent's health, do we give them a few phones not the minimum family care?

Don't say busy, don't let you forget, don't ignore the feelings of your parents, you must have an excuse to hurt your parents. Do you have to give our selfish way? So we are still people? How do we make parents?

A phone, parents gave me a class, my sonI naturally make up!

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