不去期待,踏实每一步

作者:杨碧天人气:2190更新:2021-07-13 06:01:20

中午终于把想吃火锅的念头给实现了。

念叨许久了 ,且火锅底料也买了搁置家里几个月了 ,因东西没齐全一直没耽搁下来,本来今天也没打算吃的,天气不错 ,气温还过得去,见鬼的想法就是火锅得冷的时候吃,都是临时决定的

买了香菜 ,金针菇,蒿菜,生菜 ,香菇,干香菇,豆腐 。 。。还有几样 ,老公的想法是要买些肉之类的,可是又都不太吃的,索性就算了 ,全都是素菜 ,回来后,一番折腾,兴致满满 ,不闲繁琐,我的映像中自己是吃的较少的,没什么记忆了 ,忙乎差不多一个小时才停下来,开餐

第一,闻着气味不对 ,不是幻想中该有的香味,虽然吃的少,多少有些模糊映像的 ,第二,不辣,真是一点吃火锅的样都没了 ,就刚开始有点咸 ,老公怪说,全没吃火锅的感觉,都不对劲 ,兴许底料不好,不是那么回事,我是不太清楚的 ,味道是不怎么样,却觉得勉强过得去,不忍扫了兴 ,还是满心欢喜的继续着吃,心底却失望了

本来对研究吃的这一方面没什么特长,这下倒好 ,开始的高兴劲都被这满满的失望给击碎的一点不剩,白糟蹋我这一份热乎劲

 

其实好多时候总是如此,自己总是满心的期望 ,去等待 ,经历,不管过程如何,只要结果是自己所希望的 ,实际却总是把一颗无辜的心伤的很重,,期待有多大 ,伤的就有多重,是谁说,没有期望就不会失望

 

不会 ,人总是有欲望,大的,小的 ,微小的,总是很难满足,如果我追求的是平凡 ,那么在平凡中 ,总是会发现还有哪些是不满的,哪里做的又不够,或许又希望在这平凡中增加一些什么物质 ,更贴切自己的所想,因为自己构想的,给的信号是完美的 ,然后我们才会去一步步实现,有完美的想法,却没有完美的实际 , 所以总会不知足,不管处在何种状态

 

昨晚一个朋友跟我说,他总是会相信别人 ,哪怕被伤害,不觉得要吸取每次的教训,我问 ,为什么 ,他说,相信自己,所以相信别人 , 我想即使被伤害数次,可是再次相遇一个人的时候,总会带着些期望的 ,期待这次是真心的,不该说你被他人欺骗过,就认为下次你遇到的就是假的了 ,如果一开始你就不用真诚对待,是不是人家也就一样对你不认真

 

他怪说现在的人,太没情义了 ,我有些赞同,这社会好像慢慢变的缺心眼,因为我们变的谨慎了 ,因为做坏事的人变的多了 ,索性我们就变的无情冷漠了,其实都是我们在自作自受,是因为人的贪婪 ,欲望,如果大家都海阔心胸一点, 多为他人着想一点 ,都知足点。 。。不是每个人都是坏心的,我想本质都是好的,作怪的是这越来越高的物质 ,是思想太大的寄托,期待的太多

 

说说老公,其实他也总是让我失望 ,而且还不自知,偶尔跟他说过,他却总是不放在心上 ,每次以为他会有所改变 ,每次都是失败的,该说是我死脑经,非要他也跟着我的心思走 ,还是他太呆脑经,不知讨我欢心,时时的告诉自己 ,不去对他期待太多,别总是跟自己过不去

英译版本:

At noon, I finally realized the idea of ​​eating hot pot.

Calling for a long time, and the hot pot substrate also bought a few months of shelving home, because there is no complete delay, I haven't planned to eat today, the weather is good, the temperature is still going, see ghosts The idea is that when the hot pot is cold, it is a temporary decision

bought a parsley, gold mushroom, artemem, lettuce, mushroom, dry mushroom, tofu. . . There are still a few, the husband's idea is to buy some meat, but it is not too eaten. Even if it is the vegetarian, come back, a toss, interested, not idle, my image I have a less eating, there is no memory, I am busy almost one hour, I have dinner

First, the smell is not right, not the fantasy, the scent, although there is less, How many fuzzy images, second, not spicy, really a little bit of hot pot, just start a little salty, old birmony say, all did not eat hot pot feeling, it is not strong, the power is not good, not so Winning, I am not very clear, the taste is not very good, but I feel reluctant to go, I don't endure it, but I will continue to eat, but I am disappointed with the bottom

Originally, this is the study. On the one hand, there is nothing long, this is good, the start of the tricks are killed by this full disappointment, and this is a bit of enthusiasm

That is always, I am always full of expectations, waiting, experience, no matter how it is, as long as the result is what I hope, it always always puts a innocent heart injury, I expect how big, hurt There is multiple, who said, no expectation will not be disappointed

No, people always have desire, big, small, tiny, it is always difficult to meet If I pursue ordinary, then in ordinary, I will always find what is dissatisfied. Where is it not enough, maybe I hope to add some substances in this ordinary, more adequate, because I think that the signal gives the signal is perfect, then we will go to step by step, there is a perfect idea, but there is no perfect practice, so I will always be unfounded, regardless of the state

A friend told me last night that he will always believe in others, even if it is hurt, I don't think I have to learn about each lesson, I ask, why, he said, believe in him, so I believe others, I think I think Even if it is injured several times, it will always take some expectations, I hope this time is true, I shouldn't say that you are deceived by others, think that the next time you encounter is fake. If you don't have to treat since the beginning, it is not true for you.

He whispered that the people now, too unfortunate, I agree, this society It seems that slowly changed, because we have changed, because the people who do bad things are more, we will change, but we are all self-sufficient, because of the greed, desire, if Everyone is a little in the sea, and I think about others, I know someone. . . Not everyone is bad, I think it is good, it is the increasingly high-quality substance, it is the hust of thought, I look forward to too much

】 Talk about her husband, in fact, he always disappoints, and still don't know how to say it, but he always don't put it in your heart. Every time I think he will change, every time it is failed. It is said that I am dead, I don't want him to follow my mind, or he is too brain, I don't know what I am worried, I will tell myself, I don't want to look too much about him, don't always go with myself.

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