这几日真是觉得自己太心急了，中期考试的失利 ，越难过越觉得自己做的太少，闲下来猛地一回想才觉得先前都似无头苍蝇，瞎忙活的成分很大 。这是才发现失败的厉害之处。
大概这是失败带来的最大影响吧：失败会让人心急 ，特别是觉得自己败的不甘心时，心里的那种急功近利的心理便会被放大到无数倍，特别是对于我们这种被架着脑袋 ，就快进高考场的人来说，于是逼着自己马上进入状态，不知所措的忙这忙那 ，到头来问题依旧解决不了，悲剧再次上演。我厌烦了这种循环 。。。 。。。 。。
因此，仔细一想，我认为失败后的第一件事应该是等待 ，不要急着爬起来，不要急着扳回那一局的成败，等一等 ，让自己的心先沉下来，找出问题的根本再出发。等待不仅是重新修整自己的一个过程，更是沉淀心灵的一种方式。
平心静气 ，耐心蓄积能量，自然可以厚积薄发 。
物质生活日渐丰富的同时 ，等待这种生而具有的本领日渐消退。并不奇怪，大街小巷都是为理想而奋斗的人，每一本书都在告诉我们一种思想：不要停留 ，不要浪费时光，马上行动。已经很少有人会愿意在最最宝贵的时光里停下脚步了，很少有人会愿意放下手上永远也没有尽头的工作，品品茗 ，看看花 。殊不知，等待也是一种追寻。等待，为心等一等 ，等待，为自己等一等
等待，归根结底 ，便是抛弃心中此刻的所有情绪，耐着性子坐一坐。既然说到耐着性子，那么就不难解释为什么等待这二字在现代人身上如此地少了 。耐着性子 ，即是收住脾气，安安心， ，即是保有一颗淡然，淡定的心。与其说我们缺少等待，不如说我们缺少一份淡然的心境，不如说我们太过于浮躁。我们坐过高速列车 ，便会对慢拖拖的小巴士深恶痛绝 。我们拥有了先进的电脑设备，便会对老式古董电脑痛苦欲绝。试想，如果这时候电脑才出现 ，那么碰一碰这老式的，你便觉得三生有幸，因而缺少等待恐怕也是一种不满足的表现 ，因为有了快的，便崇尚更快。
或许目前来说，我们唯一能够改变的方式就是回首了 ，惟有回首才能挽回等待 。回头看一看，新旧对比会让你的欲望减少一点，看一看一路上你所留下的脚印，或笔直或弯曲 ，或深或浅，反省会让你急功近利的心思少一些。回首，在恰当的时刻 ，为等待留下一个展示的平台。。
These days really feel that they are too anxious, the loss of the medium-term examination, the more sad, the more I feel too few, and I feel that I feel like a headless flies, and the ingredients are very busy. This is the power of failure.
Probably this is the greatest impact of failure: failure will make people feel urgent, especially when she is unwilling, the kind of urgent work in my heart The psychology will be enlarged to countless times, especially for us who have been raised by our head, so that they will enter the state of the examination room, so I don't know if I have a busy, I'm going to my head. It is still not able to solve it again. The tragedy will be staged again. I am tired of this cycle. . . . . . . .
Therefore, think carefully, I think the first thing after failure should be waiting, don't rush to get up, don't rush back to the success or failure of the game, wait for the first, let your heart First sink, find out if the problem is found. Waiting not only a process of re-trimming yourself, but also a way to precipitate the mind.
Flatherapy, patiently accumulating energy, naturally can be thick.
Unfortunately, this way has gradually been replaced by run, sometimes I really don't understand why everyone is so anxious! !
Simultaneous material life is getting more and more, waiting for this life, and has gradually resolved. Not surprising, the streets of the streets are people who struggle for ideals. Every book is telling us a kind of thought: don't stay, don't waste time, move it right away. There are already very few people who will be willing to stop in the most precious time, very few people will be willing to put down their hands, the product, the product, look at the flower. As everyone knows, it is also a kind of pursuit. Waiting, wait for the heart, wait, wait for him, etc.
, it is the final, it is to abandon all the emotions at this moment, and the resistance is sitting on one. Since it comes to the resistance, it is not difficult to explain why the two words are so young in modern people. Head resistance, ieLive your temper, peace of mind, that is, it is a light, calm heart. Instead, we lack waiting, it is better to say that we lack a little mood, it is better to say that we are too impetuous. We have a deep evil to slowly drag the small bus. We have advanced computer equipment, we will have pain for old-fashioned antique computers. Imagine if the computer appears at this time, then touch this vintage, you feel that the three students are fortunate, and they are missing, and they are afraid of an unsatisfactory performance, because there is a fast, they advocate faster.
Faster, better, higher, is a progress or step? ?
Perhaps, the only way we can change is to go back, but only look back to save waiting. Looking back, the new old contrast will make your desire to decrease, see the footprints you left on all the way, or bend or bend, or deep or shallow, the province will let you have a lot of mind. Looking back, in the right moment, let a showing platform. .
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