多愁善感的男人

作者:独孤夜青人气:1393更新:2021-05-05 10:00:04

    世人皆知女人一般都会怀孕 ,千百年来 ,这是不争的事实,也无可厚非 。当然,也有女人不会怀孕 ,那一定是生理或心理出了问题 。若是在农村,经常会遭到非议。东奔西走,寻医问药 ,那是在所难免,也是屡见不鲜。

    我生于农村,从小接受儒家学说 ,虽然修养不深,在批判着“不孝有三,无后为大”的观点的同时 ,确实很难确立自己新的理论 。

    建国后,作为时代新人,计划生育 ,是大政方针。男女平等不再视为谬论。男孩女孩一样 ,都是掌上明珠,都是父母的心肝宝贝,都属后继有人 。

    在人口老龄化加速的年代 ,未来的晚辈,我们的独生子女们,两个人创造的财富要养活三 、四代人。我在祝愿父母健康长寿的同时 ,也为我的儿孙伤神。

    我自认为没什么学问,也不懂得什么大道理,但是 ,总觉得,一个孩子有点少,有两个也许更好 。

    我的感觉来自现实中的一个活生生的例子。我有一个朋友 ,刚上班没几年,父母双双得了癌症,住进了两家医院 ,虽然两家医院在同一个城市 ,可他也手忙脚乱。昼夜奔走在两个医院之间,一周后,一个二十来岁的朝气蓬勃的小伙子 ,头发几乎全白了 。病床上的母亲心疼儿子,便偷偷地雇车返回了农村老家,死活不肯再上医院。去探望的同事 ,回来后都感到心酸,相互议论了好长一段时间。至今,早晚回忆起他当时的境况来 ,总让我揪心 。

    随着经济的腾飞,男尊女卑的时代已过,一个家庭多个男孩是累赘 ,已成为一部分年轻人的共识 。细细想来,也难说错与对。

    但如今,丁克家族却悄然兴起 ,有人称为新潮 ,羡慕效仿,还有一套异样的理论。面对新生事物,我也不得不承认 ,思想守旧,不合时宜 。不苟同,不恭维。

    听说还有人为同性恋者呐喊 ,更让我诧异,但我仍然没有理由去反对,因为我不是同性恋者 ,我对此感受不深,也无法妄加评论。当然,他若真那样做了 ,我相信他自有他的道理 。

    闲时,上网阅读了延长工作时间,应对人口老龄化的新闻 ,与人闲谈时 ,有人开玩笑说,孙子毕业了,找不到工作 ,恰好,将要退休的爷爷又要延长五年工作。孙子开着爸妈给买的轿车,送爷爷上班 ,望着爷爷步履蹒跚的走进办公室,找好停车位,提着爷爷的鸟笼子 ,到公园里去遛鸟。

    年后至今,年轻的侄儿还未找到工作,看着他在家中忧愁烦闷 ,我也跟着忧心 。

    也不知几时,我发现我也成了一个多愁善感的男人。

    作者:厚德格物

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英译版本:

Everyone knows that women will generally be pregnant. For thousands of years, this is an indisputable fact, and it is not very good. Of course, there is also a woman who will not be pregnant, and it must be a problem with physiological or psychology. If it is in rural areas, it will often be discounted. East Bency walk, seek medical treatment, it is inevitable, it is also uncommon.

I was born in rural areas, and I have received Confucianism. Although the cultivation is not deep, it is really difficult to establish a new theory while criticizing "unfilial piety and three, no big".
After the founding of the country, as a newcomer, family planning is a political policy. Men and women are no longer considered paradox. Like a boy, it is the palm of the parents, all the parents' hearts, and they are successful.

In the age of population aging, the future of the future generations, our only children, the wealth created by the two people must support three and four generations. I wished my parents to be healthy and longevity, and I was also hurt for my son.

I think I don't know what to learn, I don't know what my mind, but I always feel that a child is a bit less, there are two maybe better.
My feelings from a live example from the reality. I have a friend. I have just been working for a few years, my parents have a cancer, lived in two hospitals, although the two hospitals are in the same city, but he is also busy. Walking around the two hospitals, a week later, a young man in a twenty-year-old man is almost all. The mother on the bed hired the son, secretly hired a car back to the rural hometown, and the death refused to go to the hospital. Going to visit the colleague, I feel sad after I come back, and I have been talking about a long time. So far, she recalls him at the time in the morning and evening, and I always make me worry.
As the economy takes off, the era of male women has passed, and a family of many boys have been cumbersome and has become a part of the young people. It is difficult to say anything wrong with it.

But now, Dink family quietly, some people call trendy, envy, and have a set of strange theories. In the face of new things, I have to admit that the ideas are old, and when they are not engaged. Do not compliment, do not compliment.

I heard that someone else shouted, but I am even more surprised, but I still have no reason to oppose, because I am not identity.Lovers, I don't feel deep, and I can't add comments. Of course, if he is doing it, I believe he has his own truth.

When the Internet is read online, the news that prolongs the work, dealing with the aging of the population, talking with people, some people have joking, grandson graduated, can't find a job, just, grandfather to retire will be extended Five years of work. The grandson opened the car bought by my parents, got to go to work, looked at the grandfather into the office, looking for a parking space, letting grandfather's bird cage, go to the park to go to the park.
After the year, the young nephew has not found a job, watching him is worried at home, I have worry.

I don't know how many times, I found that I also became a man.

Author: Houde nature of things

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