祝福满满

作者:项百荷人气:266更新:2021-07-14 14:00:10

年味渐浓的最大的体现,不仅是春运抢票的紧张气氛,或是回乡人群的拥挤 ,还有每日收到的祝福信息。手机的、网络的,提醒着你年已渐至 。

    小时候会自制很多美丽的卡片,写上祝福的话语 ,送给尊敬的老师和喜爱的同学;再大些会写下长长的留言,尽管是天天见面的邻居或同学,还是要用心的留下有印记的纪念;工作后 ,便用手机发短信,把所有认识的不认识的 、熟悉的不熟悉的,只要有号码的 ,全发出去,只为了把那份祝福送出去。而如今,网络更加方便 ,时时提醒你今天谁要过生日了 ,你要祝福,今天谁看过你了,你要送祝福 ,今天谁心情不好了,你要问候......尽管依然不相识,却因一份问候和一份礼物获得满心的喜乐。因为你会感受到一份被牵挂着的温暖 。

    不知从何时起,我却不再喜欢发这样的信息。而自己在接到无数的信息后 ,甚至连看也不看便会删除。那些信息似乎都是统一格式,尽管非常美丽,却缺少了一份真诚 。我更喜欢读那些专门为我编辑的信息 ,哪怕只是短短的几个字,却是一份无比珍贵的礼物。我也喜欢用最简单的字句回复,感觉那样的真诚更加的浓厚些。

    家人却是常常忽略祝福的对象 。甚至连最起码的礼貌也会忽略 ,以为那一切都是理所当然的。我却极享受在家中的问候与祝福。每每孩子外出,我们会一一吻别,回到家中 ,我们会热烈的拥抱 ,孩子们的快乐极大的渲染着我,使原本并不善于表达情感的我也深深的感动,并且乐在其中 。接受孩子的帮助时 ,说一声谢谢,不但是对她的肯定,最重要的是感情的交通 ,让她能够体会到她在你心中的重要位置 。为孩子做一些事情时,接受一句谢谢,也是要提醒她应该重视所得到的 ,而不是父母的本份付出。家庭的气氛其乐融融。记得亦慧曾说:妈妈,我的同学都说很喜欢来我们家呢,感觉我们像是朋友 ,不像她们家什么都要听家长的 。

    这正是我希望得到的。与孩子像朋友一般的交流,没有代沟,没有界线 ,多好呀!

    当友人不解的说:一家人还要如此客气 ,岂不是生疏了?

    我并不太多的解释,我的孩子们健康、开朗、活泼,这便是明证。

 

    开始去主日学 ,我便设计一张表格,要求每个小组在聚会结束后,寻找一个祝福对象 ,将自己要对他们所说的祝福语写下 。

    想像一下,当你翻开记录本时,看到你的名字在上面 ,并且有别人对你的祝福时,你的心中是不是会非常的感动和满足?

    尽管一开始,他们似乎还不习惯 ,但是,我想,假以时日 ,这样的祝福可以脱口而出时 ,孩子心中的距离也会渐渐淡化,而真正的融为一体。

    对于成年的我们来说,似乎说赞扬的话 、说祝福的话 ,总感觉有些别扭,但是,上帝教导我们要常常说祝福的话、说造就人的话 ,因为这是蒙上帝喜悦的。

    愿我们将一切污秽的言语、一切论断的言语从心中去除,内心让祝福充满,那样 ,不仅你会改变一新,重要的是,你会让你身边的人感觉温暖如春 。

    亲爱的 ,让我们一起改变,让我们一起将祝福送出。送给你,送给她 ,送给所有的人:愿上帝的爱常与我们同在!

 

英译版本:

The biggest embodiment of the year is not only the nervous atmosphere of the Spring Festival ticket, or the crowd of returning people, and there is a blessing information received daily. Mobile phone, network, remind you that you have been getting up.

When a child, many beautiful cards will be made to write a wonderful words, give respect for teachers and favorite students; then write down a long message, although it is a neighbor or classmate that is met every day. It is still necessary to leave a mental commemoration of the heart; after work, use the mobile phone to send text messages, put all the unknown, familiar, unfamiliar, as long as there is a number, full, just to send the blessing Go out. Nowadays, the network is more convenient, always reminds you who want to have a birthday today, you have to bless, today who has seen you, you have to send blessings, today who is in a bad, you have to greet ... I still don't know, but I have a satisfactory joy for a greeting and a gift. Because you will feel a warmth of being worried.

I don't know when I start, but I no longer like to send such information. And after receiving numerous information, even if you don't even look at it. Those information seem to be unified formats, although it is very beautiful, it lacks a sincere. I prefer to read those who specialize in editing for me, even if it is just a few words, it is a very precious gift. I also like to reply to the simplest words, and I feel so sincere and more strong.

The family is often ignored the object of blessings. Even the minimum courtesy will also ignore, think that everything is just right. I am very enjoying greetings and blessings at home. Every child is out, we will kiss your other one by one, go home, we will warmly hug, the children's happiness is greatly moved, so that I am also deeply touched by it, I am not good at expressing emotions. . When you accept your child's help, thank you, not only the affirmation of her, the most important thing is the feelings of emotion, let her experience her in your heart. When doing something for your child, accept a thank you, but also remind her to pay attention to the result, not the parent. The atmosphere of the family is happy. I remember that I also said: Mom, my classmates say that I really like to come to our house, I feel like friends, don't listen to parents like their families.

It is impossible to get it. Communication with the child like a friend, there is no generational, there is no line, how good!

When the friend does not understand: a family is so polite, isn't it to be mad?

I don't explain, my children are healthy, cheerful, lively, this is a condiction.

I started to go to the main day, I design a form that requires every group to find a blessing object after the party, write yourself to what they said. under.

Imagine, when you open the record this, see your name is above, and someone else is very moving and satisfied when you have a blessing to you.

Despite the beginning, they seem to be not used to, but I think, if I have time, such a blessing can go out, the distance between the child's heart will gradually fade, and true merges.

For our adult, it seems to be praised, saying blessings, I always feel some awkward, but God teach us that we must always say that the people will make people, because this is the Joy of the Mon. .

We hope that we will remove all the pollution words, all the words of all the arguments from the heart, the heart makes the blessings, so, not only you will change a new, it is important, you will make your people feel warm spring.

Dear, let us change, let us send blessings together. Give you, give her, give it to all the people: May God's love often with us!

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