相处,应该是温馨的

作者:司徒又南人气:523更新:2021-07-14 13:30:04

“相爱总是简单,相处太难” ,歌词直白、精辟。
  相爱总是简单------很多爱情的开始,大都的确简单 。一句话 、一个眼神、一次邂逅,都可能成为爱的序幕。
  古往今来 ,这样的故事已被演绎得太多太多,几乎每个人都或多或少地经历过。
  相处太难------就象婚姻,开始简单 ,继续却不容易 。
  并不美好的婚姻过程,在生活中比比皆是,人们早已习惯 ,甚至认为是正常-----就象电视剧《金婚》里所表现的:每一集(那可是主人公的每一年)中那没完没了、无论大事小事的争争吵吵 、相互指责。
  这样的相处实在太难、太无趣 ,这样的金婚不值得期待,没有反倒清静。
  有人说,真实的婚姻就是这样:争争吵吵、相互指责 ,是一种交流或表达感情的方式 。
  即使现实中有不少在旷日争吵中存在的家庭,也不认为婚姻就应该这样。尤其是许多并不需要为温饱 、住房等基本物质生活条件发愁的夫妻。
  生活中,还有钱钟书和杨绛、周有光和张允和等 ,举案齐眉、一生相处如沐春风的夫妻 。
  每一对恋人或夫妻都有其相处的方式,但无论怎样,相处应该是温馨的 、愉快的 。
  温馨的相处是情感的滋养剂 ,是抚慰人心灵的上帝之手。
  它需要彼此都有温馨相处的愿望,需要同样的境界……但这往往是最难求的。
  所以,很多相处并不温馨 。
  所以 ,就有了这句歌词----“相爱总是简单,相处太难 ”。
  一个悲观的结论。
  但这不是必然 。
  还是想说:相处,应该是温馨的……

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英译版本:

"Love is always simple, get along too difficult", lyrics, and brilliant.
Love is always simple ------ Many love start, most of them are indeed simple. In a word, a look, once, it is possible to become a prelude to love.
Forwarded, such a story has been interpreted too much, almost every person or less experience.
It is too difficult to get along ------ as marriage, start simple, continue to continue.
Not a beautiful marriage process, everything in life is, people have already habits, and even think that it is normal ---- "Every episode (that is the owner) of the TV series" golden marriage ": One year) is endless, no matter whether the battle of the big event is noisy, mutual accusation.
This is too difficult, too boring, so golden marriage is not worth looking forward, there is no anti-quiet.
Some people say that true marriage is like this: the strugglean varlicity, mutual accusation is a way to communicate or express feelings.
Even if there are many families present in the quarreal in the reality, they should not think that marriage should be like this. Especially many couples do not need to worry about the basic material living conditions such as warm, housing.
In life, there is also money Zhong Shuhe and Yang Wei, Zhou Youguang and Zhang Yunhe, etc.
Every pair of lovers or husbands have their way, but no matter what, get along with warmth, pleasant.
Warmly get along the emotions, the hand of God of God.
It needs to have a wishes of each other, which requires the same realm ... But this is often the most hard to find.
So, many get along the place is not warm.
So, there is this lyrics - "Love is always simple, get along too difficult".
A pessimistic conclusion.
But this is not inevitable.
I still want to say: get along, it should be warm ...

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