欣得朋友喜得两千金 ，在初夏的午后，我前往朋友家看望这两个小家伙，更想看看已经不很年轻 ，再次生育的朋友 。这不是她的第一次婚姻，这两个相约着到来的小家伙也不是朋友的第一个孩子。她其实在第一次婚姻中已经有了一个和我女儿差不多大小的闺女了。记得我们一起吃饭时，朋友刚刚知道这次怀的是双胞胎 ，曾经很踌躇过一段，觉得以后的日子负担会好重的，只是现在的丈夫还没有自己的孩子，十分想要一个 。当时我们都觉得其实这也算是朋友的一种牺牲和奉献呢。我总觉得在这样的年龄再生孩子 ，真的会变得好老，生育对身心的耗费实在是很难再恢复的呢。我们几个好朋友凑在一起半开玩笑的和朋友说你生吧，等生完这两个小东西 ，你会变得好丑，就不漂亮了哦！朋友看着我们一脸茫然的笑笑什么都没有说 。
是啊，哪个女人不爱美呢 ，有这样的担心真的是好正常的，做妈妈毕竟不是一件很轻松的事情。因为你带他们来到这个世界，给他们生命 ，就一定要给他们支撑生命的好多东西，那真是一份沉甸甸的责任。从古至今在人们心目中哪一个慈祥母亲的形象不是伴着奉献和牺牲。吃苦耐劳，忍辱负重 ，额头的皱纹，鬓角的银发似乎成了母亲的符号！正是这样的符号让很多女性不敢也不愿意去做母亲，因为她们怕失去那份漂亮和轻松 。可是，当我走进朋友家里 ，看到坐在床上，幸福地凝视着熟睡中的一双女儿的朋友，我从她的脸上看不到苍老和疲惫 ，那张并不年轻的脸却洋溢着圣洁的光芒！我忽然觉得朋友依然漂亮如故。朋友目光中的那份坚定和从容又一次让我明白，担着责任的生命更厚重！从朋友家里出来，回望着她家楼下晾衣绳上那随风飘摇的婴儿用品 ，我觉得那就是一面面旗帜，在用爱告诉我们女人，负责的妈妈就漂亮！
阳光中 ，我踏着清脆的铃声走进教室。望着这群已经相处了近一年的孩子，那一张张年轻的面庞，觉得好亲切！心里不由得涌动起母亲般的柔情 。我环视教室 ，目光落在中行第二桌的位置，那里还是空的。眼前又出现那张秀丽而憔悴的脸。心里想：这孩子不知道恢复的怎么样了，再回到这里还得多久啊 。
下课后，我又来到校务室打电话给这个孩子。听着话筒里已经开始活泼的声音 ，心里很高兴，因为我知道这孩子正在康复！这是个外地转到我们班的学生，这是个有些瘦弱而娇小的姑娘 ，这是个敏感而脆弱的孩子。让她接纳我，融进这个班真的费了好长一段的时间 。在不断的谈话和接触中我逐渐了解她家的情况。父母的两地分居，母亲的漂亮和出众 ，在这个充满诱惑的这会里，家庭的解体似乎成了必然，但同时也必然会带来的就是对当时还很幼小的孩子那深深的伤害！以及那失落的父亲传染给孩子的对母亲铭心的仇恨。这一切让孩子的世界再不完整 ，也让她的心失去了应有的纯净和空灵，当父亲再婚后，她选择了离开家 ，到在外地的我们学校读书 。也许是想要一份宁静吧，特殊的家境，让孩子过早的有了暮气。很巧的是，在我们班里 ，她遇到了一个和她经历相似的女孩，两个人一见如故，形影相随。这个女孩的母亲是遥远的南方人 ，与她父亲年龄相差很悬殊，这种很特殊的婚姻，地域造就的生活习惯上的差别 ，年龄差距造成的幸福观的不同，也让这段婚姻很短命。当激情过后，年轻漂亮的妈妈 ，毅然的带着青春的怅惘回到了南方老家 。留给孩子已不年轻的父亲的除了一段不可磨灭的记忆还有这个牙牙学语的孩童。而且父亲身体有病，为了养育孩子，为了自己治病 ，父亲常年在外地打工。这两个同样父母双全，又同样孤独的孩子，成为生死相依的朋友似乎也是一种必然 。
可就当两个孩子互相用友情取暖，在关爱中疗伤的时候。生活却让她们又一次必须面对分离了 ，因为，有南方妈妈的女孩的父亲年纪越来越大，病情也在加重 ，已经很难再供养她读书。为了她的前途，不得不和她母亲达成协议，愿意让孩子到条件更好 ，环境更优越的妈妈那里去读书，尽管他有那么多的不舍！当年轻的心灵再一次遭遇离别，让这个羸弱而憔悴的女孩 ，彻底的跨掉了 。在一次的突然昏厥之后，我知道这个孩子必须要休学疗养了，否则那真的是一种危险。当我送女孩回家休养 ，望着在风中和我挥手道别的小小的身影，觉得好凄凉！当我送那到南方去读书的女孩上车，望着那朦胧的泪眼，觉得好无奈！
Xin greeted friends happy, in the afternoon of early summer, I went to my friends to visit these two little guys, and I would like to see friends who are not very young and play again. This is not her first marriage, and the two little guys who meet the arrival are not the first child of a friend. She is actually a girlfriend that has been almost the size of my daughter in the first marriage. I remember that when we got together, my friend just knew that this is twin, I used to have a very much, I feel that the next day will be great, but the husband has no children yet, I really want one. At that time, we all felt that this is also a kind of sacrifice and dedication. I always feel that in such an age, I will really become old, and the fertility is really difficult to recover the physical and mental cost. Several good friends have been joking together and friends say you are giving birth, wait until these two little things, you will become ugly, it is not beautiful! Friends looked at our smile smile nothing.
Yeah, which woman does not love beauty, there is such a concern that is really normal, and mother is not a very relaxed thing after all. Because you bring them to this world, give them life, we must give them a lot of things to support life, that is a heavy responsibility. From the ancient people's minds in people's minds, the image is not with dedication and sacrifice. After hard work, the weight of the humiliation, the wrinkles of the forehead, the silver hair seems to be a mother's symbol! It is such a symbol to make many women don't want to do their mother, because they are afraid to lose the beautiful and relaxed. However, when I walked into a friend's home, I saw a friend who was sitting in bed, happiness gazing with a pair of daughters, I couldn't see the old and exhausted from her face, and the face was not young. Holy light! I suddenly felt that my friend was still beautiful. The firm and calmness of the friend's eyes again let me understand, the responsibility is more heavy! From a friend's home, look back at her house downstairs baby products, I think that is a banner, tell us woman with love, the responsible mother is beautiful!
In the sun, I stepped into the classroom. Looking at this group of children who have been in the past a year, the young face, I feel so kind! I can't help but have my mother. I look around the classroom, and I paid the position of the second table of the Bank of China.It is empty. There is a beautiful and embarrassing face. I thought: How long does this child don't know how to recover? How long does it take to return here?
After class, I came to the school office to call this child. Listening to the sound of lively sounds, I am very happy, because I know that this child is recovering! This is a student who has been transferred to our class. This is a somewhat thin and petite girl. This is a sensitive and fragile child. Let her accept me, and it is really a long time to integrate this class. I gradually understand her home in constant conversations and contact. The two places of parents were separated, the mother's beautiful and outstanding, in this seductive meeting, the family's disintegration seems to be inevitable, but it will also bring it a deep injury to the child that is still very young. ! And the lost father is infected with the child's mindful hatred. All this makes the world's world in complete, but also let her heart lose the pure and empty spirits that should have, when the father is married, she chose to leave the home, to our school in the field. Perhaps you want a quiet, special family, let your child have a night. Coincidentally, in our class, she encountered a girl with her experienced, two people saw it, and the shape was followed. The mother of this girl is a distant southerner. It is very disappeared with her father's age. This very special marriage, the difference in living habits of the region, and the happiness of age gap are different, and this marriage is very short. . When the passion, the young and beautiful mother, resolutely returned to the southern hometown with youth. The father who left the child is unstoppable, except for an indelible memory, there is a child with this tooth. And the father is sick, in order to raise the child, in order to cure the disease, the father works in the field all the year. Both the same parents are double, and the same lonely child, the friend who has become a life and death seems to be a necessity.
When two children are warm with each other, they are treated in love. Life has made them once again faced separation, because the father of the girl with the mother of the South Mother is getting bigger and bigger, the condition is also aggravating, it is difficult to support her reading. For her future, she has to reach an agreement with her mother. I am willing to let the children go better, and the mother is more superior to study, even though he has so much uncomfortable! The young mind once again suffered, let this weak girl, completely crossed. At onceIt's just that the child must take a breakthrough, otherwise it is really a danger. When I sent a girl to take a rest, I looked at the little figure in the wind and I waved a little, I feel so desolate! When I sent the girl who went to the South to read the car, I looked at the tears of that, I feel so helpless!