早之前看到别人做不好，会为他们担心 ，所以别人很累，我自己也很累 。后面我懂得了，其实自己成长才是对别人最大的帮助。幸福一点 ，现在我知道先不想别人，做好我们自己。 做好，不只是比现在做得更好 ，更是要进步，最好能比别人做的好一些些 。 朋友做阿里，他最近有点小伤感 ，一是他的排名不稳定，二是原来他花钱拍的图片，到处被人拿去使用，搞得她在那伤心 ，生气。他说，做人做事怎么能这样子做呢。 我说，这就是网络 ，是大家喜欢我们图片才拿去的 。我们先不想，先想办法做好自己。 在网络上，我们肯定会碰到这样子的问题。如果我们纠结 ，或者做这个做那个，那肯定效果是不好的 。唯一的是这些问题先不要去想，当做什么都没发生。然后努力提高自己。 别人可以抄袭我们的图片 ，但是我们整个装修他不可能全部一样。 即使全部一样，我们还有我们的文字的，我们还有我们的技术 ，我们还有我们心情的 。 但是让我们自己成长了，那么很多的东西都很好说了。 还有一点，就是其实在我们还很弱小，或者说 ，没他们优秀，或者说，比他们优秀不多的情况下 ，我们所有的小小的力量也只能是完全的放在我们自己的成长当中。 在以前，我总是很喜欢交代弟弟要这么做那么做，希望他能按照我的路子来 。 比如他一定要当班长 ，一定要考研，一定要进文学社，都要按我的路子来。甚至很多的时候 ，我自己舍不得吃，也要帮他买好的东西。但是我们依然会吵架，事情依然没做好 。 不只是他难受 ，我自己也难受。 但是后面我想开了，别人要是那样子对我，让我没了自己，知道对我好 ，我也会难受。 也是到后面我懂得了，自己成长才是对别人最大的帮助 。 所以关于他，我更多的时候是在他需要的时候帮忙下 ，然后其他的按照他自己想走的路去走。还真的别说，他一下就进了大的公司，然后在里面做 ，做得很好。 他也自己去参加培训，而且晋升的速度都超乎我的意外 。本来以为他要3年，结果半年。 而我自己 ，也是没有天天操心他的事情，我有了更多的时间做自己的事情。所以我自己也慢慢慢慢的进步。而这个时候，最开心的是 ，2个人不会吵架了，都争着往家里买东西 。 在一开始的时候，我是想带着他的，希望他按我的来走 ，不会走弯路。 后面，等于是两个人一起争着进步，争着成长。 当然 ，后面我跑得快一些，所以他又开始模仿我，学习我 ，这次是他自己要学习的 。而也是这次学习，他没像以前那样子，我说什么他不听 ，还生气，而是我说什么他做什么。 其实在这个社会上，真的天天都发生这样子的事情。 我们要求别人怎么做 ，但是别人就是不按照我们的来 。最常见的就是男女朋友了。他们总是希望对方听自己的。但是自己却是很少成长 。结果很多优秀的人被拉下了水。 要是拉到比较低的一方还好，很多的时候一方比较强势，拉到了水沟里去了。 表面上看，是两个人都很和谐的 ，但是跟别的情侣比，其实幸福指数差很多 。不只是感情上的，也有物质上的。因为年轻都是奋斗的时候 ，两个人应该是互相进步才是真的。 只是很多的人也在这个时候被抛弃了，一般还是比较弱的一方。也就是失恋，离婚 。 要怎么办 ，真的想着她她抢回来吗？如果真的不回来就死缠烂打吗？如果是这样子，那么真的会很难。在这个世界上，每天都有发生这样子的事情。也许我们自己也都发生过 。 在这个时候我们要做的是 ，努力走出来，先不伤心，然后就要开始学习 ，开始成长。 很多人这个时候想去创业，其实不行的，因为情绪没调整好，判断不精准。而且要是现在能创业 ，那么没分手的时候就可以起来了 。所以需要调整好，然后学习，然后去做。 其实这个社会上好多都是这样子的 ，也是经历了这么一次，才成长了。 我们村就有好几个，以前在村里 ，都是打麻将，这个那个的，天天不干活 ，说心里话，大家家里都不爱他们去的 。因为他们去了准是喝酒，搞通宵。后面他们组团去载客。 到了现在 ，眼界不一样了，看到别人有房子，他们也就想着要买房子 。 于是就几个人凑一起，然后买房子 ，有了房子，要想着还贷。他们可拼命了。 有些人连夜回家求老爸，教他铺地板技术 ，有些兼职了好几个工厂。 所以曾经的他们好几个都起来了 。 而这个时候，他们回家不一样了。大家不说他了。而是希望他们能去他家坐坐 。然后喝下酒。也说下最近怎么样，是不是有什么好的路子。大家一起多赚下钱 。 而人都是这样子的 ，当我们什么都没有的时候，别人不会管我们。跟别人差不多，对于别人来说可有可无。但是要是成长了 ，比别人好了，那么别人会学习的 。 所以碰到那样子的情况，我们什么都不用说 ，做好我们自己就可以了。 在古代，有个人也是这样子，他是苏秦，锥刺股的苏秦。 而其实 ，这个就是社会，不管是古代还是现在都是这样子 。不管是韩信，还是林绍良。 林绍良 ，曾是世界12大银行家之一，曾是世界十大富豪之一。有640家公司。曾经的时候也是很穷的 。都没地方住，只有去别人家里鸡舍里住。但是没想到别说偷鸡。 所以到后面村里呆不下去 ，就跑到了汕头，然后去印尼 。后面就在那做生意，卖烟。后面在一次不不经意中救了印尼的总统 ，所以到后面慢慢慢慢的就起来了。 起来之后，他的第一件事，就是帮村里修自来水 。所以他们很早就有自来水了。 当然后面做了很多 ，这个故事是我一个朋友讲的，不知真假，但他就是林少良村里的。 曾经的360跟QQ一直吵架，后面QQ也觉得是自己的问题 ，很多的东西是有办法改进的 。所以到后面，基本都是做投资，然后把不擅长的给别人 ，然后自己专注做连接。 所以，也才有了微信，也才有了投资那些企业 ，所以也才有了现在的腾讯。 如果他们当初都在那郁闷，肯定没有后来的他们了 。更多的是先不想，然后学习 ，改变，成长。所以到最后，根本就不用说了。别人给他们的砖头 ，他们都拿去盖房子了。 更重要的是，他们起来了，原来跟他们吵的人都佩服了，而且都像他们学习了 。 其实人的一生 ，肯定都会碰到这样子，那样子的问题，特别是两个人都差不多的情况下。所以在这个时候 ，我们要做的是先不管别人，先让我们自己努力的成长，努力的进步。 一直向上 ，只要我们自己做好了，别人跟我们差距也就大了 。他们要前进，会学习的。 我的QQ/微信：838504315 ，欢迎大家添加。
I saw that others didn't do it, I will worry about them, so others are very tired, I am also very tired. I know later, in fact, my own growth is the greatest help to others. Happiness, now I know I don't want others first, do myself. Do it, not just better than now, more important, it is best to do better than others. Friends do Ali, he recently a little sad, one is that his rankings are unstable, the second is the original picture of him spending the money, and it is taken away from being used, and she is sad, angry. He said that how can people do things like this? I said, this is the network, it is to take us like us. We don't want to do it first. On the network, we will definitely encounter such problems. If we are tangled, or do this, then affirmative effect is not good. The only thing is that these questions should not be thought about it, and they did not happen. Then try to improve yourself. Others can copy our pictures, but we can't all of our entire decoration. Even if we are all, we have our text, we still have our technology, we still have our mood. But let us grow up, so a lot of things are very good. There is also a little, it is actually very weak, or says that there is no excellent, or that we can only be completely placed in our own growth than them. among. Before, I always like to explain the younger brother to do it so, I hope he can follow my path. For example, he must be a squad leader, be sure to postgraduate, must enter the literary society, you have to press my path. Even a lot, I will not be able to eat, but I have to buy something. But we will still quarrel, things are still not doing well. Not just that he is uncomfortable, I am also uncomfortable. But later I want to open, if someone else is like me, let me have myself, knowing that I am fine, I will be uncomfortable. Also, I know later, my own growth is the greatest help for others. So about him, I am more when he needs.Wait for help, then other ways to follow the way you want to go. I really don't say, he entered a big company, then do it inside, it is done. He also went to participate in training, and the speed of promoting is more than my accident. I thought he had to 3 years and the result is half a year. And I am, and I have not worried every day, I have more time to do my own things. So I will slowly improve myself. And this time, the happiest thing is that 2 people will not quarrel, they are all bought at home. At the beginning, I would like to take him, I hope he will go according to me, will not take the way. Behind, it is equal to two people to fight together, and strive to grow. Of course, I ran some of my faster, so he began to imitate me, learn me, this time he is going to learn. It is also this study, he didn't like it as before, I said that he didn't listen, and angry, but what he said. In this society, it really happened this day. We ask others how to do it, but others will not follow us. The most common is that men and women are. They always want the other party to listen to themselves. But you are very little growth. As a result, many excellent people were pulled down. If it is better than the lower party, a lot of times is more powerful, pulling it in the gitch. On the surface, two people are very harmonious, but with other couples, in fact, the happiness index is a lot. Not just feelings, there is also a matter of material. Because the young people are struggling, two people should be mutual progress is true. Just a lot of people have been abandoned at this time, and it is generally a relatively weak party. That is, love, divorce. What should I do, really think about her to grab it? If you really don't come back, you will die. If it is this, it will really be difficult. In this world, there is such a thing in this world. Maybe we have happened. At this time, we have to do it, try to come out, don't hurt, then start learning and start growing. Many people want to start this business at this time, in fact, because the mood is not adjusted, it is not accurate. And if you can start this business now,So you can get up when you don't break up. So need to be adjusted, then learn, then do it. In fact, many of this society is like this, and it has experienced such a time. There are several people in our village. I used to play mahjong in the village. This one is not working every day. I don't love them at home. Because they go to it, they are drinking, doing all night. Behind them set to the passenger. When I arrived now, my eyes are different. I see someone else's house, they think about buying a house. So a few people together, then buy a house, have a house, to think about it. They can be desperate. Some people go home from night to seek Dad, teach him floor technology, and some part-time a few factories. So they used to have several things. And at this time, they went home to be different. Don't say him. Instead, they want them to go to his house to sit. Then drink it. Also say, how is it, is there any good path. Everyone earns more money. And people are like this. When we don't have anything, others will not take us. Almost similar to others, can be available for others. But if it grows, it is better than others, then others will learn. So I encountered the case, we don't have to say anything, you can do it yourself. In ancient times, someone else is like this, he is Su Qin, cone shares in Su Qin. In fact, this is a society, whether it is an ancient or now it is like this. Whether Han Xin, or Lin Shaoliang. Lin Shaoliang, who was one of the 12 major banks of the world, and was one of the top ten people in the world. There are 640 companies. It was also very poor when I was. I haven't lived in a place, only to live in the hormon of others. But I didn't expect not to say stealing chicken. Therefore, I can't stay in the village, I ran to Shantou and then went to Indonesia. Later, I doing business and selling smoke. Later, in the back of Indonesia, it slowly slowly slowly slowly. After getting up, his first thing is to help the village come to the water. So they have tap water very early. Of course, there are a lot behind, this story is my friend, noKnow the true and false, but he is Lin Shaoliang Village. The 360 with QQ has been quarreling, and the back QQ feels that it is his own problem, and many things are improved. Therefore, it is basically an investment, and then gives others, then you will focus on your connection. Therefore, in the wealth of WeChat, I have to invest in those companies, so I have a current Tencent. If they are there, they are depressed, definitely there is no later. More, don't want it first, then learn, change, and grow. So until the end, I don't have to say it all. Others gave them bricks, they all took it to the house. More importantly, they got up, they have admired people who are arguing with them, and they are learning. In fact, people's life will certainly encounter such a problem, such as the problem, especially two people are almost almost. So at this time, what we have to do is no matter what others, let us work hard, and strive to progress. Always, as long as we do it yourself, others will be big. They want to move forward and will learn. My QQ / WeChat: 838504315, welcome to add.
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