在感情中 ，主动往往才会有故事，主动也才能使普通的感情升华为爱情，可在十二星座中 ，有这样四大星座，他们对主动追求自己女孩不感冒，甚至会觉得反感 。
巨蟹座内心敏感 ，时常缺乏安全感，需要十分稳定的感情，才能让他们安心。他们对主动追求自己的女孩通常不感兴趣 ，在他们心里，这类女孩的性格过于洒脱，常在男生圈子里打堆，今天来追求自己 ，明天也能去追求别人。并且，这样的女孩身边异性朋友通常有很多，甚至常常会抛开巨蟹男去和异性朋友玩 。因此巨蟹男始终认为 ，这种主动追求自己的女孩，往往有太多的不确定性因素，让他们无法安心的开始这段感情 ，所以，在恋爱中越是主动，巨蟹男可能就越不买账 ，甚至会觉得反感。
射手男思想保守，甚至有点儿传统，还时常有些大男子主义 ，他们认为一段爱情的开始，必须是由男生主动的，甚至在心里认为这是男生的权利与义务。如果反过来，由女生主动追求自己 ，射手男常常是不太能接受的，他们会认为这样的女孩不矜持，在心里给对方减分 。射手男喜欢自己主动去追求 ，有着强大的征服欲，尤其是想要又难以得到的人或物，会让他们产生极大的兴趣 ，如果太过轻易就得到了，他们很快就没有了兴趣，所以射手男在爱情中 ，通常是不会喜欢上主动追求自己的女生的，还会对那种过于主动的女生产生反感。
白羊男思想跳跃，性格直率 ，有什么事不会扭扭捏捏，凡事都喜欢掌握主动权，也有着极强的征服欲，如果女孩倒追自己 ，他们会觉得对方把自己的主动权抢走了，是在宣示这段感情中的主导地位，白羊男便会在心里产生挫败感。白羊男们的占有欲也很强 ，认为只有自己通过重重努力，去追求得来的恋人才是最好的，而那种主动追求异性的女生 ，往往会让他们觉得对方太不矜持，继而产生一些反感的情绪 。
狮子座有着与生俱来的领导风范，霸道威武 ，在感情里也是如此，他们通常不能接受主动追求自己的女生，而更加倾向于用自己的魅力去一步步感染自己喜欢的女孩。狮子男喜欢在感情中做引导者 ，带领女孩去感受、去发现自己，使得感情逐渐的升温为爱情。而倒异性的女生，往往无法激起他们的挑战欲和征服欲，可能他们还会对其不屑一顾 ，觉得这样的女生不够矜持
In the feelings, the initiative will often have a story. The initiative can also make ordinary feelings to submit to love, can be in the twelve constellations, there are four big constellations, they don't have a cold, and even feel Ingestion.
1, Cancer Male
Cancer is sensitive, often lacks sense, it takes a very stable feeling to let them be relieved. They are often not interested in pursuing their own girls, in their hearts, such girls are too free, often playing in the boys circle, come to pursue themselves today, tomorrow can also pursue others. And, such girls often have a lot of opposite sex friends, and even often let go of the Cancer man to play with the opposite sex. Therefore, the Cancer man always believes that this active pursuit of your own girl, often has too many uncertain factors, let them start this feelings, so, the more active in love, the less crab male may not buy, I will even feel the disgust.
2, shooter men
shooter male thinking conservative, even a little tradition, still some big men'sism, they think that the beginning of a love must be born Active, even in your heart, this is the right and obligation of boys. If it is, the girl is actively pursuing himself, and the shooter is often unacceptable. They will think that such a girl does not hold, and give each other to the other side. The shooter male likes to take the initiative to pursue, with a strong conquest, especially those who want to get it, will make them great interest, if they are too easy to get, they are so interest So the shooter is in love, usually does not like to take the initiative to pursue his girl, and will also have a disgusting for that too active girl.
3, white sheep men
White sheep male thought jumping, character straight, there is no twisting, all things like to master the initiative, and have Extremely strong conquest, if the girl is chasing yourself, they will feel that the other party will take their own initiative, it is the dominant position in this emotion, and the white sheep men will create frustrated feelings. The Popularity of Aries is also very strong. It is best to think that they have to work hard, and they are the best, and the girl who takes the initiative to pursue the opposite sex will make them feel that the other is too too.Hold and continue some emotions.
4, the lion male
Leo has a gentle leadership style, overbearing mighty, in the feelings, they usually can't accept girls who take the initiative to pursue their own students And more tend to go with your own charm to step by step to infect your favorite girl. Lion male likes to be guided in the feelings, lead the girl to feel, and find yourself, so that the feelings gradually warmed to love. The inverted girls often can't arouse their challenges and conquest, maybe they will dismiss it, think that such girls are not enough
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