众所皆知，社会是由人群组成 ，天外有天，人外有人，想要生存 ，想要竞争，就要升华自己内心和灵魂，改变本身的质。
社会都是不公平的 ，明争暗斗，尔虞我诈，你想脱颖而出 ，需要的不仅仅是头脑和实力，更是一种谋略，一种更加高层次的智慧。
凡事都是相生相克 ，有正必有反的一面，通俗的来说，一个成功者的背后一定要经历一些艰难的考验 。甚至你要付出的是更多。有所得就必有所失，古今中外 ，任何一个伟大的人，或者统治者，都失去过很多自己不想失去的东西。如果不舍弃 ，那就无法升华上去 。举个简单的例子，如果你放不下你的恋人，但是要去国外留学 ，不又不能带他去，那你应该怎么做，是为了自己的以后放弃这个恋人 ，还是平庸的陪他过日子？所以想要提升自己，想要改变自己，你必须要学会放下 ，而那些，就是执着。一条成功的路，往往不能带很多东西，这点要明白。
综上所诉的都是一些执着 ，有时候一些你不能放下而想成功就必须放下的东西 。然后就是你的思维和判断力。如果你仅仅懂得一些字面的意思，那还是远远不够，社会中你必须做的是什么？答案就是事业。对于平平淡淡 ，一分工作一辈子做到底的人，不需要多说，他们的追求就是普通的生活 ，如果你想成为强者，你就需要看不断的观察，不断的思考 。你们应该知道 ，狼是怎样的，他们可以等待猎物好几天，思考捕捉猎物的危险性 ，和成功的几率，一旦有了机会，就会将激情与体能全面爆发，给予敌人致命的一击。这就是狼道 ，在业界中的竞争也是如此。如果你想成功，你就要抓住市场，开发商品的话你就要看人群 ，看地方，还要判断同行的竞争等等等等 。凡事都要三思而后行，考虑考虑再考虑 ，思考的都要全面，同时也要做好失败的准备，宇宙万物都是阴阳相对 ，也就是没有绝对的事情。这些就是考验你的心理，可以说每一次成功和失败也都是考验你的心理。如果你的对手和你的实力一样，那就要看心理战。要始终把握事物发展变化的关键 ，度量对方的智谋，测量对方的能力，再比较技巧方面的长处和短处 。至于贤良和不肖，智慧和愚蠢 ，通用性和怯懦，都是有区别的。所有这些，可以开放 ，也可以封闭；可能进升，也可以辞退；可以轻视，也可以敬重 ，要靠无为来掌握这些。
一个想成功的人，你可以暂时的无所为，那你绝对不能什么都无所谓 。一个什么都具备的人 ，一定要思考全面再做出选择，可以说决定。中国有一句俗话说的真是很好，欲速则不达。超之过急往往走向失败 。这点主要取之于自己的性格 ，有时候看谁更加能沉住气。在抗战中邱少云就是一个典型的例子，火烧身而依旧沉住气，忍住痛，所以才决定了那场战争的胜利。这是一个强者或者圣人必须具备的 。
从业界中的复杂形势来看 ，你不难发现，每个成功的人，他拥有的不仅仅是自己智慧 ，和努力，更多的是如何处理人际关系，这点很重要 ，这是个人的情感问题，但是你想在社会中竞争生存，你没有“心机”是不行的 ，这个可以用乱世来形容的世道，绝对少不了背叛，出卖。任何人 ，都不能轻易的相信，包括父母，你可以不接受这一观点，但是不难思考 ，从古到今，哪一个王者身边有可以说真心话的人，所以他们都是寂寞的 ，至少他们成功了，因为放下了感情。这也是一种执着，感情往往是致命的执着 。你可以有朋友 ，朋友们对你好你也可以对朋友们好，但是绝对不能失去防备，这是底线了。就像法律一样 ，没有亲情。
最后就是你的谋略，还是那句话，凡事都要全面的去思考 ，如果你处于上风，你绝对不能骄傲，绝对不要感觉自己就是王者一样，要知道 ，人外有人，你比人家厉害，人家肯定会不服气 ，不会甘心败给你，你还是需要坚持，还是需要处处防备。当你处于下风 ，你不要用感情用事，你应该用你清醒的头脑，挽回残局 。要区分什么可行、什么不可行 ，就要把那些计谋研究明白，计谋有与自己不相同的和相同的，必须有主见 ，并区别对待，也要注意跟踪对方的思想活动。
如果要开放，最重要的是考虑周详；如果要封闭，最重要的是严守机密。由此可见周全与保密的重要 ，应当谨慎地遵循这些规律 。
让对方开放，是为了侦察他的真情；让对方封闭，是为了坚定他的诚心。所有这些都是为了使对方的实力和计谋全部暴露出来 ，以便探测出对方的程度和数量。圣人会因此而心思索，假如不能探测出对方的程度和数量，圣人会为此而自谓封闭 ，或者是通过封闭来自我约束；或者是通过封闭使别人被迫离开 。
不论是纵横，还是离开 、归复、反抗 ，都必须通过开放或封闭来实现 。开放和封闭是万物运行规律的一种体现，是游说活动的一种形态。人们必须首先慎重地考察这种变化，事物的吉凶 ，人们的命运都系于此。
口是心灵的门面和窗户，心灵是精神的主宰 。意志、情欲 、思想和智谋都要由这个门窗出入。因此，用开放和封闭来的把守这个关口，以控制出入。这些是兵书上的道理。
强者之间的斗争 ，绝对不是比谁赚的钱多，谁的客户多，谁的企业壮大 ，他们比的就是谁的思维能力更加高，因为失败的一方，他的一切 ，往往会成为对方的，他们需要做的就是猜测对方的想法和行动 。
All the universities are well known, and the society is composed of people. There are days outside the sky. There are people outside the world. If you want to survive, you want to compete, you must sublimate your heart and soul, change itself.
The society is unfair, the might of fighting, and I am screaming. You want to stand out, need not only the mind and strength, but also a strategy, a higher level of wisdom.
Everything is a phase of life, there is a must, and it is popular, and there must be some difficult test behind a successful person. Even you have to pay more. If you have something to lose, ancient and modern Chinese and foreign, any great person, or the rulers, have lost a lot of things that they don't want to lose. If you don't give up, then you can't sublimate. For a simple example, if you can't let your lovers, but go abroad to study abroad, can't bring him, then what should you do, give up this lovers after you, or a mediocrity? So I want to improve myself, I want to change myself, you have to learn to let go, and those, it is to attract. A successful road often can't bring a lot of things, you have to understand.
In summary is some persistent, sometimes some of you can't let go, you must put down something. Then you think and judgment. If you just understand some literal meaning, it is still not enough, what do you have to do in society? The answer is the cause. For those who are flat, one point for a lifetime, don't need to say, their pursuit is ordinary life, if you want to become a strong, you need to see constant observations and constantly think. You should know what the wolf is, they can wait for the prey for several days, thinking about capturing the dangers of quarry, and the chance of success, once there is a chance, will make passion and physical explosions, giving the enemy fatal blow. This is the ruthenium, the competition in the industry. If you want to succeed, you have to grab the market, if you want to watch the community, you will see the crowd, look at the place, but also to judge the competition of peers and so on. Everything must think twice, consider considering it, thinking is comprehensive, but also preparing to fail, the universe is a yin and yang, that is, there is no absolute thing. These are testing your psychology,In order to say that every success and failure are also testing your psychology. If your opponent is the same as your strength, then you have to look at the psychological war. To always grasp the key to the development of things, measure the other party's intelligence, measure the ability of the other party, and then compare the strengths and shortages of skills. As for the good and not Xiao, wisdom and stupidity, versatility and embarrassment are different. All of this, can be opened, can also be closed; maybe advance, can also be dismissed; can be despised, respectful, you must master these.
A person who wants to succeed, you can temporary, then you can't see anything. One of the people who have everything, must think about the whole choice, it can be said that it will be decided. There is a saying in China, saying is really good, and the speed is not reached. Superior excessive times often fail. This is mainly taken to your own personality, sometimes it is more able to indulge. In the anti-Japanese war, Qiu Shaoyun is a typical example, fired, still calming, to endure pain, so I decided to win the victory of the war. This is a strong or saint must have.
From the complex situation in the industry, you are not difficult to find, everyone who has successful, he has more than just your wisdom, and efforts, more how to deal with interpersonal relationships, this is very Important, this is a personal emotional problem, but you want to compete in the society, you don't have a "heart", this can be described in the world, absolutely not betrayed, sell. No one, can not believe in, including parents, you can not accept this view, but it is not difficult to think, from ancient times, which king can say the truth, so they are all lonely, at least They succeeded because they put down their feelings. This is also a kind of persistence, and feelings are often fatal. You can have friends, friends can also be good for you, but absolutely can't lose the guard, this is the bottom line. Just like law, there is no family.
The last is your strategy, or that sentence, everything must be a comprehensive thinking, if you are in the upper wind, you must not be proud, don't feel that you are the king, you know, someone else, You are more powerful than people, people will definitely not be empty, will not be willing to lose it, you still need to stick to it, or need to guard everywhere. When you are in the wind, don't use emotionsThings, you should use your clear mind and save the bureau. To distinguish what is feasible, what is not feasible, it is necessary to understand those planning studies, and those who are not different from themselves, must have a master, and treat them, and pay attention to tracking the ideological activities of each other.
If you want to open, the most important thing is to consider it is quite details; if you want to close, the most important thing is to strictly. It can be seen that these laws should be followed by cautiously.
Let the other party open, it is to reconnaissance his true feelings; let the other party closed, in order to firm him. All of this is to expose all the strengths and strats to each other to detect the extent and quantity of the other party. The saints will so think, if you can't detect the degree and quantity of the other party, the saints will be refined to this, or by closing from me constraints; or by closing to leave others.
Open and closed are the laws of various things in the world. Open and enclosing are in order to make the internal opposition of the matter, through the beginning and end of the year, the development changes in the beginning of the year.
Whether it is vertical, or leaving, returning, and resisting, it must be achieved by open or closed. Open and enclosure is an embodiment of everything in the rules of life is a form of lobbying activities. People must first take care of this change, and the good mincifes of things are all in this.
The mouth is the facade of the soul and the window, the soul is the master of the spirit. Will, lust, thinking, and intelligence must be shipped from this doors and windows. Therefore, this gate is taken with open and closed to control the entry. These are the truth in the Book.
The struggle between strong people is definitely not more money than anyone. Whoever has more customers, who is growing, they are more thinking than any thinking ability, because of the failed party, his Everything, often become the other party, what they need to do is to guess each other's ideas and actions.
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