生活的小乐趣秋蕴

作者:熊又文人气:292更新:2021-07-19 07:38:02

  
 
  丹尼尔.卡尼曼在《快与慢》中这样阐述金钱与幸福感的关系:“经验自我的幸福感会随着收入增加 ,但超过满意水平后 ,也就不会再提升了 。你能够拥有更多使人愉快的经历,但你将会丧失一些享受生活中小乐趣的能力 。 ”追求财富并没有过错,财富给我们带来了更多的便捷和愉快体验 ,但无论承认与否,这世界大部分财富终究是被少数人所控制,对于大多数的普通人 ,能达到满意水平已实属不易。所以对多数人来讲,享受生活中的小乐趣是幸福生活不可或缺的一部分。
  对满意生活水平的标准,也因人而异 ,但在追求财富的过程中,如果收入尚未达到满意水平,却已丧失享受生活中小乐趣的能力 ,那是多么的遗憾和可悲啊 。
  每个周末不能错过的就是到街区的早市上去转一转,习惯了互联网通讯的我们,坐在钢筋水泥的高楼大厦里 ,已经很难有渠道和这世界有着真实的直接交流了。很感谢文明发展得还没有迅速到将这个角落也淹没 ,在这里我能够切身感受到生活真实的存在和鲜活。熙熙攘攘来来往往的人群里,那些小贩们顶着风冒着雨也不会错过一个早晨,是因为他们货架上新鲜的水果蔬菜不容错过 ,也因为身边那个帮着收钱孩子的未来也不允许他们错过吧 。
  他们辛苦而真实地在活着,很多表情已近乎麻木,但比起专卖店里穿着职业装 ,面带微笑款款而谈地推介商品的店员,却更能获得我的一份信任。卖肉的那个大姐,半老徐娘也还算的上西施 ,皮肤白皙,一脸的莹润。我也经常会在她这里买肉,他们一家人的和气让我感到踏实 。肉总会包得整整齐齐的 ,做包子做饺子,都会跟我唠上几句如何做了更美味。那个颤巍巍的老爷子来买肉,大姐一边给其他客人找零一边说:“够了够了大爷 ,吃了再来买。 ”
  大爷说:“怎么你这肉还怕多卖吗?”
  大姐解释:“不是的 ,这肉最好吃新鲜的,天天都有卖 。”
  大爷坚持:“我这岁数的,懒得动弹 ,一次多买点。 ”
  “像您这岁数才应该多活动活动呢。”最后不知谁说服了谁,生意达成 。也许生活的乐趣就是在这样你来我往的交流中吧 。
  冬日来临要给家人好好进补了。就看好了一只乌鸡。杀鸡的那家男人一看我挑了那只乌鸡,嘴里就开始了碎碎念:“你不知道这只鸡 ,我是给人家抢过来的,每年只有这个季节才有,当年的成鸡 ,还在下蛋,总共只有两只 。”手里没停,嘴里也没停 ,似乎我是买了他家的宝贝一样心疼。然后真的就取出了一只已经硬了壳的鸡蛋,这下那男人更是唠叨没完:“从来没有这样的过啊,我杀鸡都五年了 ,今天是头一次碰到 ,哎呀你可真会买东西。 ”他家的女人在一边帮着忙活,把杀好的鸡和蛋分开装好,递到我手上 ,嘱咐我一句:“这鸡蛋不要给孩子吃,我们老家忌讳 。”我真的就如买了人家的宝贝,乐颠颠地一路跑回家 ,想着热腾腾香喷喷的鸡汤,会温暖我家整个的冬日。
  街边那家卖披萨的小两口,更是会做生意 ,总共五六个平方的门面,引得附近的孩子都到这里解馋。无论什么时候都是一口一个姐地喊着,买了他家的披萨 ,似乎做了多大的善事 。嘴里充满了感激。烤制好的香气扑鼻的披萨,装到盒子里,再配上餐盘 ,纸巾 ,手套,交到我手上,总也会嘱咐一句:“拿好 ,姐。”
  人要买谁家的东西,又会喜欢到哪里消费,除了货品的优劣之外 ,一定还有一些其他方面的认同,否则仅凭美味一定不会维持长久 。我想我之所以喜欢在他们这里消费,是源自他们身上的那份淳朴善良 ,在和善良的人们的交往中,我整个的身心因为信任而轻松,让我体会到了生活中的小乐趣。
  生活中的乐趣就是这么简单 ,几句朴实的话语,一个信任的眼神,就会让人发出由衷的微笑而感到生活的美好和温暖。生活的乐趣不仅仅在春花秋月的美丽中 ,不仅仅在豪宅豪车的舒适里 ,也不仅仅在缠绵悱恻的情感里,只要有善良有真实存在的地方,哪怕是简陋杂乱的街角 ,都能传达出人性的乐趣 。但如果人善良纯正的眼睛一旦被世俗利欲所蒙蔽,要想体会到生活中的小乐趣可就不是一件容易的事了 。微信号:Life-of-qiuyun
  

英译版本:


Daniel Daniman explains the relationship between money and happiness in "Fast and Slow": "Experience Self-satisfaction will increase with income, but exceeding the satisfactory level, Will not increase again. You can have more pleasant experiences, but you will lose some of the ability to enjoy your life. "The pursuit of wealth has not fault, and wealth brings us more convenient and happy experience. No matter whether it is admitted, most wealth of this world is controlled by a few people. For most common people, it is not easy to achieve satisfactory level. So for most people, the little fun in life is an indispensable part of happiness.
For the standards of satisfied living, they also vary from person to person, but in the process of pursuing wealth, if the income has not met satisfactory level, it has lost the ability to enjoy the small and medium-end fun, that is, how regrets and sad.
There is no longer missed every weekend to go to the neighborhood of the neighborhood to turn around. We are used to the Internet communication, sitting in the high-rise building of the reinforced cement, it is difficult to have a channel and the world has a real direct communication. . I am very grateful to civilization, I have not quickly drowned this corner, here I can feel the real existence and fresh life of life. Bustic coming to the crowd, those hawkers will not miss a morning, because the fresh fruit vegetables on their shelves are not missed, but because the future of the child is not allowed. They missed it.
They have worked hard and truly, many expressions have been near Mais, but they are more trusted by the store than wearing professional clothes in the store. The big sister who sells meat, half of the old rigors still count the Shangxi, the skin is white, and the smoothness of a face. I often buy meat here, and their family's and the gas makes me feel practical. The meat will always pack a whole, doing a buns to do dumplings, will have a few more delicious. The trembled old man came to buy meat, and the big sister gave other guests to say one side and said: "It's enough to have a grandfast, eat it again."
Grandpa said: "How do you be afraid? "
Big sister explained:" No, this meat is best to eat fresh, every day, there are all things. "
Uncle insisted:" My age, too lazyMoving, pay more. "
" There should be more events like you old. " "I don't know who to persuade who, business is reached. Maybe life is in this way.
Winter is coming to give your family a good job. It is optimistic about a black chicken. At first glance, I picked the black chicken. I started to smash it in my mouth: "You don't know this chicken, I am giving people to people, I only have this season every year, the year of the year, still Under the next egg, there are only two. "There is no stop in your hands, it seems that I bought the baby who bought his home. Then I really took a hard shell. The man was even more embarrassed:" I have never been this, I have killed the chicken for five years. Today is the first time. Oh, you will really buy something. "The woman of his family helped to be busy, open the killing chicken and the egg into my hand, I hit me:" This egg does not give the child, our hometown is taboo. "I really bought the baby, I ran home, I thought about the hot sprayed chicken soup, warm my family's whole winter.
The street selling pizza's small couple, more It is a business, a total of five or six square facade, and the children who have attracted themselves here. No matter when a sister is shouting, bought the pizza of his house, it seems to have done how much good things. Mouth Full of gratitude. Baked a good aroma pizza, install it into the box, then with the plate, paper towel, gloves, and make it to my hand, always hit a sentence: "Be good, sister. "
People want to buy anything, and where to consume, in addition to the advantages and disadvantages of the goods, there must be some other aspects, otherwise it will not last for a long time, I think what I think. I like to consume in them. It is a simple, good, and the interaction between the people, my whole body and mind are relaxed because of trust, let me experience the little fun in my life.
life The fun is such a simple, a few simple words, a trusted look, will make people feel the beauty and warmth of life. The fun of life is not only in the beauty of the spring, but not only in the luxury In the comfort of the car, not only in the emotion of the lingering, as long as there is a good place, even if it is a simple street corner, it can convey the human music.interest. But if the people are kind and positive, once the secularity is blinded, I want to think that the fun in life is not an easy task. Micro Signal: Life-of-Qiuyun

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