人总是要说谎的。谁要是说自己不说谎 ，这就是一个彻头彻尾的谎言 。有的人一生都在说谎，他的存在就是一个谎言。有的人偶尔说谎，除了他自己 ，没有人知道这是一个谎言。谎言在某些时候只是说话人的善良愿望，只要不害人，说说也无妨 。
小的时候在幼儿园，每天游戏时有一个节目 ，就是小朋友说自己家里有什么玩具。一个小朋友说，我家有一个玩具火车，像一间房子那样长……我呆呆地看着那个男孩 ，前一天我才到他家玩过，绝没有看到那么庞大的火车……我本来是可以拆穿这个谎言的，但是看到大家那么兴奋地注视着说谎者 ，我不由自主地说:我们家也有一列玩具火车，像操场那么长……
危机就这样缓解了。第二天，我悄悄地观察着大家 。我真怕大伙追问那个男孩，因为我知道他是拿不出来的。大家在嘲笑了他之后 ，就会问我要操场一般的玩具火车。我和那个男孩忐忑不安，彼此没说什么 。我的小小的心提在喉咙口好久，我怕哪个记性好的小朋友突然想起来。但是日子一天天平安地过去了 ，大家都遗忘了，甚至在以后再提起玩具的时候，我吓得要死 ，也并没有人说火车的事。真正把心放下来是从幼儿园毕业的那一天 。我像鸟儿一样地轻松了，再也不要为那列子虚乌有的火车操心了。
一是撒谎其实不值得 。图了一时之快活，遭了长期之苦难。占小便宜吃大亏。不到万不得已 ，不要说谎 。
二是说谎很普遍。且不说那个男孩显然在说谎，就是其他的小朋友，也经常浸泡在谎言之中。证据就是他们并不追问我大火车的下落了 。小孩的记性其实极好，他们不问 ，并不是忘了，他们知道这是一个骗局。他们之所以能看清 ，是因为同病相怜。
三是说谎是一门学问 ，需要好好研究 。主要是为了找出规律，知道什么时候可说谎，什么时候不可说谎 ，划一个严格的界限。附带的是要锻炼出一双能识别谎言的眼睛，在苍茫的人海中谨防受骗。
修炼多年，对于说谎的原则 ，有了些许心得 。
平素我是不说谎的，没有别的理由，只是有点怕累。人活在世上 ，真实的世界已经有太多的麻烦，再加上一个虚幻世界掺和在里面，岂不更乱了套？但在我心灵深处，生长着一棵谎言三叶草。当它的每一片叶子都被我毫不犹豫地摘下来的时候 ，我就开始说谎了。
它的第一片叶子是善良 。不要以为所有的谎言都是恶意，善良更容易把我们载到谎言的彼岸。我当过许多年的医生，当那些身患绝症的病人殷殷地拉了我的手 ，眼巴巴地问:大夫你说我还能治好吗?我总是毫不踌躇地回答：能治好！我甚至不觉得这是一个谎言。它是我和病人心中共同的希望，在不远的微明处闪着光 。当事情没有糟到一塌糊涂的时候，善良的谎言也是支撑我们前进的动力啊！
三叶草的第二片叶子是此谎言没有险恶的后果 ，更像是一个诙谐的玩笑或是温惋的借口。比如文学界的朋友聚会是一般人眼中高雅的所在。但我多半是不感兴趣的 。但人家邀了你，是好意，断然拒绝 ，不但不礼貌，也是一种骄傲的表现，和我本意相距太远。这种时候 ，我一般都是找一个借口推托了。比如我说正在写东西，或是已经有了约会……总之让自己和别人都有台阶下 。这算不算撒谎？好像要算的。但它结了一个甜甜的果子，维护了双方的面子。
第三片叶子是我为自己规定——谎言可以为维护自尊心而说 。我们常会做错事。错误并没有什么了不起，改过来就是了。但因了错误在众人面前伤了自尊心 ，就由外伤变成了内伤，不是一时半会儿治得好的。我并不是包庇自己的错误，我会在没有人的暗夜 ，深深检讨自己的缺憾 。但我不愿在众目睽睽之下，把自己像一块次品展览。
也许每个人对自尊的感受不同，但大多数人在这个问题上都很敏感。为了自尊 ，我们可以说谎，同样是为了自尊，我们不可将谎言维持得太久 。因为真正的自尊是建立在不断地完善自己的地基之上的 ，谎言只不过是暂时的烟雾。它为我们争取来了时间，我们要在烟雾还没有消散的时候，把自己整旧如新。假如沉迷于自造的虚幻 ，烟雾消散之时，现实将更加窘急 。
随着年龄的增长，心田的谎言三叶草渐渐凋零。我有的时候还会说谎，但频率减少了许多。究其原因 ，我想，谎言有时表达了一种愿望，折射出我们对事实朦胧的希望 。生命的年轮一圈圈加厚 ，世界的本来面目像琥珀中的甲虫，越发纤毫毕现，需要我们更勇敢地凝视它。我已知觉人生的第一要素不是“善 ”而是“真”。
有的人总是说谎 ，那不是谎言三叶草的问题，而简直是荒谬的茅草屋了 。对这种人，我并不因为自己也说过谎而谅解他们。偶尔一说和家常便饭地说 ，还是有原则区别的。 #p#分页标题#e#
中国有句古话，叫做“人之将死，其言也善”。我觉得这个“善 ”字就是真实的意思 。也就是说 ，人到临死的时候，就不说谎了。但这个省悟，似乎来得太晚了点。
People always have to lying. Who wants to say that I don't lie, this is a complete lie. Some people are lying in their lives, and his existence is a lie. Some people are occasionally lie, except himself, no one knows this is a lie. Lies are just a kind wishes for speaking people, as long as they don't have people, talk about it.
When you are in kindergarten, there is a show every day, that is, the child says what toys in your home. A child said that my family has a toy train, like a house ... I looked at the boy. I went to his family before, I didn't see the huge train ... I was originally You can dismantle this lie, but see everyone who is so excited to liably, I can't help but speak independently: our home also has a toy train, as long as the playground ...
wow! So long trains, how good! The little friend is in danger.
Then you bring it to the kindergarten tomorrow, let us see it. The boy said calmly.
Okay! Ok! Everyone cheers.
I was condented at the blood in my young body. God, where do I go to find so magnificent train? Maybe there will be no creation in the world!
I looked at the boy, I read the expectations from his small brown eyed.
Why is he be interested in? According to our small age, I still don't know how to fall in the stone ... I want to think, I finally understand!
I also said that he also said to everyone: Let him take the same train as a large number of trains, I will bring the trains of the home playground.
The crisis is relieved like this. The next day, I quietly observed everyone. I am really afraid that everyone will ask the boy because I know that he can't get it. After laughing at him, everyone will ask me to play a typical toy train. I am not awkward with the boy, and I didn't say anything. My little heart is in the mouth of the throat. I am afraid that the child is very memorable.. But the days have passed every day, everyone is forgotten, even when they mentioned the toys in the future, I scared to die, and no one said the train. I really put my heart and graduated from kindergarten. I am easily like a bird, and I don't want to worry about the train of the Lianziwu.
This is the clearest thing I have in memory. It gives me a sense of heavy burden. It is simply the most childhood. In the long years, I reflect on a few times and summarize several lessons.
One is that the lie is not worth it. The picture has been very happy and has been long-term suffering. It takes a small price to eat small and cheap. I don't have to have it, don't lie.
Second, it is very common. And not to say that the boy is obviously lying, that is, other children, often soaked in the lie. Evidence is that they don't ask my drops. The child's memory is actually excellent. They don't ask, not forget, they know this is a scam. The reason why they can see is because they are in the same disease.
The third is to lie is a learning, you need to study well. Mainly in order to find the law, know when you can lying, when you can't lying, draw a strict limit. The attached is to exercise a pair of eyes that can identify lies, beware of being deceived in the sea of people.
Many years, with the principle of lying, have a little experience.
Major I am not lie, there is no other reason, just a little fear. People live in the world, the real world has too much trouble, plus an unreal world into the inside, don't you got more? But in the depths of my heart, I have a little lie on a clover. When each of its leaves were taken from me, I started to lying.
Its first leaf is kind. Don't think that all lies are malicious, and kindness is easier to carry us on the other side of the lie. I have been a doctor, when the patients who are diamuring, I am pulling my hand, my eyes ask: Do you want to cure? I always answer: I can cure! I don't even think this is a lie. It is me and diseaseThe common hope in the hearts, flashing in a refarity twilight. When things are not bad to a mess, the kind lie is also the driving force to support us!
The second leaf of clover is the consequence of this lie, more like a vivid joke or a trick excuse. For example, friends in the literary community are elegant in the eyes of the average person. But I am not interested. But people invites you, it is good, categorically refused, not only rude, it is a proud performance, and it is too far away. At this time, I usually find an excuse to put it. For example, I said that it is writing something, or there is already a date ... In short, let yourself have steps and others. Is this not lie? It seems to be counted. But it has a sweet fruit that maintains the face of both sides.
The third leaf is I specified for myself - the lie can be said to maintain self-esteem. We will often do something wrong. There is nothing wrong with the error, it is changed. But because of the mistakes in front of everyone, it was hurt by the trauma into internal injuries, not good for a while. I am not hovering my own mistake, I will review my shortcomings in the darkness of no one. But I don't want to put yourself like an exhibition under the public.
Perhaps everyone is different from self-esteem, but most people are very sensitive to this issue. In order to self-esteem, we can lying, it is also for self-esteem, we can't keep the lie too long. Because the real self-esteem is established on the continuous improvement of our foundation, the lie is only a temporary smoke. It wins for us, we have to have no more than a new year in the smoke. If you add it to your own virtual illusions, the reality will be more embarrassed when smoke dissipates.
With the growth of age, the lies of the hearts of the heart gradually witnessed. I sometimes lying, but the frequency is reduced. For the reason, I think, the lie sometimes expresses a wish, reflecting our hopes for the facts. The year round of life is thickening. The world's original face is like a beetle in amber, the more frankly, and we need to stare it more brave. I have been aware that the first element of life is not "good" but "true".
The person always tells, that is not a problem with clover, and it is a ridiculous hurt house. For this kind of person, I don't understand them because I also said it. Occasionally, talking to homes, there is still a matter of principles. # P 分 标题 # e #
China has an old saying, called "people will die, his words also". I think this "good" is true meaning. In other words, when people are dead, they will not ignite. But this provincial understanding seems too late.
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