成全想要的答案那安

作者:梁怀曼人气:1381更新:2021-07-20 17:00:05

      真相只有一个,却不一定是心中所想的结果。真相往往是残酷的,而人往往会选择自我欺骗 ,找尽理由成全一个想要的答案,尽量让心碎的速度慢下来 。
 
      很多事情并不是我们看到的那个样子,更不是我们想象的那个样子 ,但是我们依然固执地认为我们想到的,就是事情的真相。即使有人给我们罗列出一件件证据,还原了事情的真实经过 ,我们依旧能够找到其中的漏洞,想出不同的借口推翻已是证据确凿的真相。
 
      其实,我们心里都清楚真相是什么 ,即使一开始可能会被表象欺骗了,也会在冷静过后或是在别人的带领下一步一步看清事情的真实面目,但是我们嘴上依旧不肯承认真相的存在 。为何?只因这个真相我们不能接受 ,会伤害到我们。那么 ,为了保护自己,我们只好选择自欺欺人,减少一些伤害。
 
      其实 ,我们知道在真相面前,我们找出的理由都是可笑的借口,除了我们自己 ,恐怕没有人会相信 。但是我们依然坚持着,不愿意直接面对真相,仿佛只要失去了这些借口 ,真相就会毫无遮掩地攻击我们,而我们无处可逃。
 
      然而,最后我们还是没能逃过真相带来的伤害。我们早已清楚会是这样的结果 ,可是我们还是选择用尽方法暂缓这一刻的到来 。这在旁人看来不过是白费力气,不会改变结果的方式,但在我们看来 ,能偷得一段喘口气的时间就是最大的安慰。
 
      面对真相 ,我们都有一个想要成全的答案。于是,我们试图寻找不存在的漏洞、滑稽的借口,只为暂缓真相刺伤我们的那一刻 。很傻 ,却是我们唯一能够保护自己的方式 。

英译版本:

The truth is only one, but it is not necessarily the result of the heart. The truth is often cruel, and people tend to choose self-deception, find out why they want to make a question, try to make heartbreaking speed slow down.

Many things are not the one we see, it is not the one we think, but we still stubbornly think that we think, is the truth of things. Even if someone gives us a piece of evidence, restore the true passage of things, we can still find the vulnerabilities in it, think of different excuse overturns have evidence.

In fact, we have a clear truth in our heart, even if it is in the beginning, it will be deceived, it will be a true face of the matter after calm or lend next step, but our mouth It is still refused to admit the existence of the truth. Why? Just because of this truth we can't accept, it will hurt us. So, in order to protect yourself, we have to choose self-deception and reduce some damage.

In fact, we know that in front of the truth, the reason we find out is a ridiculous excuse, except for us, I am afraid that no one will believe. But we still insist, don't be willing to face the truth directly, as if you lose these excuses, the truth will attack us without covering us, and we are nowhere to escape.
However, we still did not escape the harm brought by the truth. We have already clear this result, but we still choose to exhaust this moment. This seems to be white feat, not change the way, but in our opinion, the time that can steal a gas is the greatest comfort.

In the face of the truth, we all have an answer you want. So, we tried to find a vulnerability that did not exist, the funny excuse, only to temporarily stabbed our moment. Silly, it is our only way to protect your own.

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