别被年龄绑架了天晴

作者:耿俊林人气:65更新:2021-07-19 14:15:06

      从我出生开始,就已经和年龄纠缠不清了。我们必须按照每个年龄阶段的标准活着 ,有时候只要偏离标准,就会成为异类,就要被迫改变自己以求达到标准 。别被年龄绑架了 ,人生该由我们做主。
 
      从幼儿园开始,我的学业就和年龄有着分不开的联系。几岁该上小学,读完了小学 ,就到中学 、大学 ,经历中考、高考等成绩验证方式,就这样一年接一年地接受教育 。每一年我都升上一个年级,每个年级都有各自的要求和标准。若达不到要求和标准 ,我就是差生,就会被看作没前途。值得庆幸的是,我一直是符合标准的 ,却也因此失去了许多 。
 
      离开校园之后,年龄依旧是我的困扰 。过了26岁还没有谈恋爱的女性,就会被看作“剩女” ,30岁之前还没有生孩子的女性,就是高龄产妇。于是家人朋友用各种方式催婚、逼婚,给我造成了很大的压力。尤其是当周遭的大部分同龄人都已结婚 ,甚至已经有了孩子的时候,我就成了一个异类 。
 
      我并不是不婚主义者,但是我不希望我的爱情和婚姻是建立在年龄到了这个理由上面。我不想因为年龄的问题 ,匆忙地和一个不甚熟悉的男人走入婚姻。幸运的话 ,两个人还能平平静静地过日子,若运气不好,遇人不淑 ,两个人的生活就会一团糟 。
 
      从小到大,我一直被年龄牵制着。想要做一件事情,首先要看年龄够不够 ,够了才能考虑,不够就别想了。就算不想做一件事情,也要看年龄 。人生硬是被年龄不合理地分割成碎片 ,失去了许多自由。我只希望余生别再被年龄绑架了,每个年龄该做什么应该由我自己来决定,别人是怎么样的我没有兴趣去看 ,更没有兴趣效仿,只想按照自己的想法活着。

英译版本:

From my birth, it is already entangled with age. We must live in accordance with the standards of each age stage, sometimes as long as deviations, it will become a heterogeneous, and we must be forced to change yourself to meet the standard. Don't be kidnapped by age, life should be made by us.

From the kindergarten, my academic connection is inseparable from age. A few years old, I have read primary schools, I have received education in this year, I have received education in this year. Every year I rose a grade, and each grade has their own requirements and standards. If there is no requirements and standards, I am a difference, it will be seen as no future. Fortunately, I have been in line with standards, but I have lost a lot.
After leaving the campus, the age is still my trouble. After 26 years old, I haven't talked to the woman in love, and I will be seen as "leftover girl". I haven't had a child in my child before the age of 30, which is a senior mother. So family and friends have a harmament in various ways, forcing marriage, giving me a lot of pressure. Especially when most of the same age people have been married, I have even have a child, I have become a heterogeneous.

I am not a unmarriedist, but I don't want my love and marriage to be based on age to this reason. I don't want to be because of age, hastily and a man who is not very familiar with a marriage. Fortunately, the two people can still be calm and quiet. If the luck is not good, the people are not awkward, the life of the two people will be a mess.

From small to big, I have been holding it by age. If you want to do something, you must first see the age is enough, enough to think about it, don't think about it. Even if you don't want to do something, you have to watch age. Life is hard to divide into fragments by age, and lose a lot of freedom. I only hope that the rest of your life will be kidnapped by age. Every age should be decided by myself. I am not interested in others. If I don't have interest, I just want to live according to my own ideas.

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