经历才是最具价值舒君-苏

作者:蓝绿夜人气:1572更新:2021-07-17 22:30:08

今天起了个大早,打开自己一楼的大门时 ,

看到了一群熙熙攘攘的小学生手里拿着早点,背着不大不小的书包,

匆匆忙忙地往学校赶去!

看到这种场景 ,不知不觉有点怀念自己的学生时代,

学生年代每个人都经历过,对任何人都不陌生 ,

看着这群稚嫩的学生,除了感慨时间飞速还是感慨时间的飞速逝去!

 

就像每天傍晚跟一群球友去镇上的小学打球,

每次去的时候看到校门楼外围着一大群家长 ,在校门口往学校里寻觅自己孩子的身影,

都会有点莫名感触;

虽然在我印象中,

我爸妈几乎很少在我小学期间接过我上放学 ,

但对于现在的我来说 ,我也更能理解自己父母当初的劳碌和辛苦!

家人,老师,同学 ,其实对我们来说都是不可缺少的,

都很珍贵!

虽然现在大部分同学都可能见面时叫不出对方的名字了,

但还是有一小部分同学能时不时聚一起的 ,

这份情谊说实在的,真的很珍贵!

毕竟随着我们慢慢长大,有些人已经成家甚至都有了孩子 ,

可能我们共同的话题慢慢转向了我们下一代,

这也许就是一种传递吧!
 

人生真的需要自己经历,品尝过了才知道其中的酸甜苦辣 ,

不管是学生年代的我们,还是现如今当父母的我们,

回想下孩子的感受和自己父母的感受 ,

可能真的能理解他们现在和以往的所作所为 ,

这就是我们该有的生活,

虽简单平凡,但每次回忆都让人感慨万千 ,难以忘怀!

 

五一转眼就到了,现在的我不知不觉有点期待假期了,

主要我为了锻炼自己的自律性 ,

人都是有缺点的,但必要的时候还是需要去慢慢去正面调整它,

而不是逃避!

 

还有就是假期能给我带来充裕的时间来锻炼身体:打篮球!

不得不说 ,我这一个多月,除了生意上的收获外,

还收获了比较良好的体质;

效果对我来说还是很明显 ,

一个多月减掉了身上10多斤肉,

特别是锻炼而减掉的,这个性质完全不一样;

 

熟识我的人都知道 ,从我结婚到现在这三年来 ,

体重一直在狂飙中,

完全处于失控的状态!

真的是应了那句“心宽体胖”,

不知道是该高兴还是“高兴”;

虽然现在的生活状况很满意 ,但是身体的健康远超一切,

忙季的时候可能真的没有太多时间顾及到,

但其他月份还是可以花更多时间在锻炼身体上;

 

我相信很多人特别是在大学毕业后 ,

身体素质逐渐变得越来越差,特别我们这代人又是活在互联网盛行的时代,

晚睡是我们的这代人的特性 ,所以体质真的有点不敢恭维!

不管自己现在能赚多少,

要是保证不了自己的身体健康,

那就是对自己和家人的不负责任!

 

而且良好健康状态 ,

是自己良好的工作状态的基本保障,

我想每个人都不想把现在赚的钱,

过几年全部都花在医院上 ,甚至也有可能还远远不够 ,

到那时再想着锻炼已经为时已晚,那该是多悲哀!

良好的生活规律和自律的工作状态是我现阶段最该需要的,

真的不得不强制性改变自己 ,

来保持自己的健康!

 

命运是由自己掌握的,

也许在自己迷茫的时刻,一个好的念头突然冒出 ,

立马去实施它,可能就是你另一个好的生活方式的起端!

改变在任何时候都不算晚,

或许很多刚毕业的大学生在找工作路途上碰到很多问题 ,

才意识到当初学生时代的随意荒废自己的学业是多么荒谬。

但其实不然,经历了就是经历了,

我们改变不了的是过去 ,而不是未来,

不要抱怨以前的自己,最该抱怨是现在不想改变的你 ,

有时候可能你会很感激以前的自己 ,因为只有你经历了,

你才懂得更珍惜以前不曾拥有的!

 

曾经我什么都没有,大学几年里除了游戏就是在游戏 ,

学业几乎完全没有顾及过,

等真正该迈进社会的时候,我胆怯了;

一个死宅的我 ,踏进社会就像乡下人走进大城市一般,

少了好奇感,多了无力感!

那时的我 ,完全就是一无是处,

每天除了懊恼自己的无能,

就是后悔当初怎么没有在大学四年努力去完成自己的学业 ,并参加一些学校的社团锻炼自己的社交能力;

那时完全没有勇气踏进社会,伴随着无力干感度过了大半年,

至今我都能深刻感受到那段时间内心的黑暗 ,

不过幸运的是 ,我身边有位如今已经成为我老婆的那个女人默默着陪在身旁,

所以我是比较幸运的;

 

正是有过这段黑暗的心理阶段,

才知道需要我站出来时 ,是多么无力,

而就是这种无力,让我深刻了解到改变的重要 ,责任的重要,还有学习的重要!

自从知道自己当爸爸那天起,我就不允许自己再次懦弱 ,

也正是那时候经历了那一些,才明白了很多东西,是要靠自己努力才能改变现状的;

改变真的不会晚 ,其实有时候一个答案,是需要我们用一生去来完成的,

而这个家 ,就是我一生要完成的一个完美答案!

就算时间能重新重置 ,或许我能变得比现在更优秀,

但是对于现在的我却一点都不稀罕,

因为我经历的这些东西才是我最珍贵的 ,

也让我得到最珍贵的家庭和现在的心态!

 

不要觉得现在状态很糟糕就想着放弃,

更不要自暴自弃,相信我 ,我也是那样过来的,

甚至有时候觉得自己毫无用处,在别人面前都抬不起头 ,

我灰暗的时候,连续几个月都不想出自己房间门,

而且是在房间里自暴自弃 ,没有想过改变,这才是最恐怖的!

 

有时候真正去面对问题才是最好的选择,

尝试着与它对抗才有一线生机 ,而不是一味的逃避 ,

或许,从那时候开始将是你天翻地覆的改变,成为一个美好的起点!

英译版本:

Today, I got an early morning. When I opened my first floor,

saw a group of bustling primary school students holding breakfast, carrying a lot of books,

Hurry to the school!

Seeing this scene, I don't know if I miss my student era,

Everyone in the student has experienced, No one is unfamiliar,

Looking at this group of young students, in addition to the emotional time, the speed, the flying flying!

Just like a group of primary schools to go to the town every evening,

Every time I went to see a large group of parents around the school gate, at school The door is looking for his own child,

will be a bit inexplicable;

Although I am impressive,

My parents are almost very small in my primary school. After I am going to school,

But for me now, I can understand my parents to work and hard!

Family, teacher, classmate, in fact, it is indispensable for us,

is very precious!

While most of the students can not meet each other,

But there is still a small number of classmates to get together,

this friendship To be honest, it is really precious!

After all, as we grew up slowly, some people had already had children,

Maybe our common topic slowly turned to our next generation,

This may be a way to pass!


Life really needs yourself, taste it, only knows the sour and bitter,

Whether it is our student age, it is now when our parents,

Recalling the feelings of children and their feelings of their parents,

It may really understand what they are now and in the past,

This is what we should have,

Although it is simple, it is a lot of emotions, it is difficult forget!

May 1 turned into an eye, now I don't know if I look forward to the holiday,

Mainly I exercise my self-discipline,

People are shortcomings, but if necessary, they still need to go slowly to adjust it,

rather than escape!

There is also a holiday to bring me a bad time to exercise: play basketball!

I have to say, I have been more than business harvest, in addition to business,

has also harvested a relatively good physical condition;

The effect is still very good for me Obviously,

After more than a month, it was reduced by more than 10 kg meat,

, especially the exercise, this nature is completely different;

People who know me know that from me until the past three years,

The weight is always in the madness,

is completely out of control!

Really should be "heart-wide fat",

I don't know if it is happy or "happy";

Although the current life is very satisfied, The body's health is far with everything,

There may be no too much time when busy season,

But other months still spend more time on exercise;

I believe many people, especially after graduating from college,

The physical quality is gradually getting worse, especially our generation is also living in the Internet.

Evening is our characteristic of our generation, so physical fit is really a bit darentry!

No matter how much you can make now,

If you can't guarantee your health,

That is not responsible for yourself and your family!

and good health status,

is the basic guarantee of its own good working state,

I think everyone doesn't want money to earn now

It has been in the hospital for a few years, and even it is still not enough.

When I wanted to exercise again, it would be sad!

Good life law and self-discipline work status is the most important thing I have at this stage,

I really have to change myself,

to keep their own health !

Destiny is mastered by ourselves,

Maybe in his confused moment, a good idea suddenly emerged,

immediately to implement it Maybe you have another good way of life!

Changes at all times,

Maybe many college students have encountered a lot of problems on the road of finding work,

only realized the original student era It's ridiculous to waste your scrapped.

But it is not, it is experienced,

We can't change it, not the future,

Don't complain about yourself, the most complaint is now You don't want to change,

Sometimes you will be very grateful to yourself, because only you have experienced,

You know more cherish that you have never have you!

I haven't all, in addition to the game in the university in the game,

The academic industry has not taken into account,

, etc. Move into societyI am timid;

I am a dead house, I will enter the society, just like the country people walk into the big cities.

Less sense, more powerful!

At that time, it was completely unworthy.

In addition to annoying your own incompetence,

is to regret how did you work hard to complete your school in four years? And participate in some school communities to exercise their social skills;

There is no courage to enter society at that time, with the weakness of weakness,

I can deeply feel deeply The darkness in the past,

But fortunately, there is a woman who has become my wife now,

So I am more fortunate;

It has had this dark psychological stage,

How powerless,

and this is this Unligerative, I deeply understand the importance of changing, the important responsibility is important, and there is also an important thing!

Since he knows that he is a father, I will not allow myself to be weak,

is that there is some things that have experienced that, they understand a lot of things, it is necessary to rely on their own efforts. Change the status quo;

Change is really not too late, in fact, there is a answer, it is necessary to do it in a lifetime,

And this home is the one I have to do in my life. Perfect answer!

Even if the time can re-reset, maybe I can become better than it is now,

But I am not rare for the present,

Because I experienced These things are my most precious,

also let me get the most precious family and the present!

Don't think that the state is very bad, thinking about giving up,

Don't be self-violentRetrieved, I believe in me, I am also like that,

sometimes feels unused, can't lift his head in front of others,

I gray, for a few months I don't want to have my own room,

and it is self-abandoned in the room, and she didn't think of changing. This is the most horrible!

Sometimes it is the best choice to do with the problem.

Try to fight against it with it, not a flavor escape,

Perhaps, from then starting to change the change in your day, becoming a wonderful starting point!

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