如果你现在处于二十岁以下这个年龄阶段，那么你将面临人生中最重要的两项抉择 ，这两项抉择可能成就于你，也有可能毁灭于你！再也没有什么比这两项抉择更重要的了 。那么到底是哪两项抉择呢？
如果你现在对你的工作没有任何兴趣 ，或者已经产生枯燥、厌倦等心理情绪，那么对你来说，你只是抱着一副混日子，只求将来不会饿死的心态工作 ，不说你将来能否在事业上取得成就，单说你以后能否养家糊口都已经成为一个很大的问题。
当你准备踏入某个行业的时候，你必须作一个慎重的考虑。有的人买一件喜欢的衣服的时间 。竟然比考虑一个喜欢的工作 ，所花取的时间更长，这是一种对自己不负责任的行为。
你要选择一个自己非常感兴趣的工作 ，每个人不可能只会在一个行业上有所成就，也就是说你能够在多项工作上取得成功，那么首先你要对待这个工作产生浓厚的兴趣 。
在你决定之前 ，你不妨先问下这个行业的朋友，让他们谈谈自己对这个工作的兴趣以及态度，是否有改行的打算。如果你没有这个行业的朋友，那么你可以联系这个行业里的老手 ，不要害怕别人拒绝告诉你，当你向别人请教问题的时候，每个人都会很高兴的向你解答 ，因为对他来说，你这是尊重他，一种真诚的奉承。
也许你父母会为你安排某个工作 ，或者不允许你进入某个工作，这个时候，你可以听听父母的意见 ，毕竟他们走的路比你过的桥都要多，所以你要多加分析，但是你想要做的工作与他们相对的时候 ，你不必为了安慰父母，放弃你所喜欢的工作，毕竟这将决定你的命运，不可草率 。但是 ，最后的结果还是需要你自己决定。
如果你现在的工作对你来说，很感兴趣，很开心 ，那么，恭喜你，你的人生已经找到目标 ，即使将来不能成功，起码你也要比那些在抉择工作中盲目的人要幸福的多！平时在工作中你也会觉得自己不是在工作，而是做你自己想做的事 ，你已经有了一个正确的心态！
如果你遇到了一个你自己爱的人，那么你将要努力抓住机会，自私些吧！不要在乎别人怎么说 ，否则你将会后悔一生，也不要看到朋友同学都恋爱或者结婚生子了，你就滥竽充数的找一个人结束单身，这不但是对自己的不负责 ，对别人也是一种不负责！这种感情经不起时间和挫折的考验的。
你更不能拿感情不当一回事，抱着玩一玩的思想 。以‘人不风流枉少年’为目的，否则你将会对爱情麻木 ，也不会再有爱情。
别太注重另一半的外表，要谨记：‘漂亮的妻子 ，惹祸的根苗 。’
当你找到一份自己喜欢的工作时，那么你工作的时候是快乐的 。当你找到一个自己爱的人时，那么你工作除外的时间是开心的。当你两种都找到的时候 ，那么你的每一天都是开心快乐的！你已经不再有烦恼！
If you are now at the age of 20, then you will face the most important choices in life. These two choices may achieve you, or it may destroy you! Nothing is more important than these two choices. So which two choices are it?
The first choice is what kind of job you want to choose, and the other is let your future husband or wife!
If you don't have any interest in your work now, or have a boring, tired and other psychological emotions, then for you, you just hold a mistake, just ask for future death. Mentality work, don't say that you can achieve achievements in the future, you have said that you can support your family in the future.
When you are ready to step into an industry, you must make a careful consideration. Some people buy a favorite clothes. It took longer than considering a favorite job, which was a longer time, which was an irresponsible behavior.
First you have to make a probably understanding of your industry, as well as a long time, if it is a very big industry, you need more. After all, 100 people will eliminate 99 people's industries. Why do you have such a big risk to interview.
You have to choose a job that is very interested, everyone can't just achieve it in an industry, that is, you can succeed in a number of work, then you have to treat this Work produces a strong interest.
Before you decided, you may wish to ask the friends in this industry, let them talk about their interests and attitudes of this work, whether there is a plan to change. If you don't have a friend in this industry, then you can contact your old hand in this industry, don't be afraid that others refuse to tell you, when you ask someone to ask questions, everyone will be happy to answer you, because of him, You are respecting him, a sincere manner.Maybe your parents will arrange a job for you, or do not allow you to enter a job. At this time, you can listen to your parents' opinions, after all, the road they walk is more than your bridge. So you have to analyze more, butWhen you want to do, you don't have to give up your favorite work in order to comfort your parents, after all, this will determine your destiny, informite. However, the final result still needs you to decide.
If your current work is very interested, very happy, then, congratulations, your life has found the goal, even if you can't succeed in the future, at least than those in choice work The blind person is going to be happy! Usually you will feel that you are not working, but doing things you want to do, you already have a correct mentality!
If you encounter a person you love yourself, then you will try to seize the opportunity, you can selfish! Don't care what others say, otherwise you will regret life, don't see friends in love or get married, you will be able to find a person with a person, which is not only responsible for yourself, it is also a kind of irresponsible! This kind of emotional causing time and frustration test.
You can't even have a feeling of emotional things, holding the thoughts playing. With the purpose of 'people don't breath, you will be numb against love, and you will not have love.
Love does not need to vigorously, only seek flatness, happiness and peace! Love with money is just a kind of physical and desire to satisfy, the satisfaction of the soul is really valuable!
For those who don't love you, I must know how to let go, don't hurt one more opportunities for you, I have to get it.
Don't pay too much attention to the other half of the appearance, you must remember: 'Beautiful wife, the roots of the disaster. '
For a man, the most important thing is a man, a man who successs, is even more infinite.
When you find a person you love and people who love you, then your work is happy. There are also many examples of success because of love!
When you find a job you like, then you are happy when you work. When you find a person you love, then the time except your work is happy. When you are found, then you are happy every day! youNo more troubles!
So, friends, please make careful choices!
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