在一个安静的环境下独处，真的很有利于人的思考 。不得被说 ，就在刚才，我突然想清楚了一个困扰了我很久的问题——为什么我总是喜欢小说里的世界，而排斥现实的世界？我想大概是因为小说里的世界还是比较纯粹的吧。我仔细分析了一下 ，发现在小说里的人物情感大致只分为爱和恨两种，而发生在各种人物之间的纠葛也只是恩和怨两种。所以，我们在小说里可以尽情的去爱一个人，也可以尽情的去恨一个人 。如此一来 ，小说里的世界就变得很简单了。但是，那些都只是在小说里而已。在现实生活中，我们真的能做到敢爱敢恨吗？我们真的能拼尽一切只为了一种情感的满足吗？答案肯定是不言而喻的 ，因为我们的身边有太多的束缚和羁绊，我们不能抛开一切只为那所谓的爱和恨。
在现实生活中，我们大多是处于一种感情的灰色地带的 。我们既不能深爱 ，也不能太恨。因为我们所生活的这个世界有它自己的制度，有它自己执行的方式，而我们作为这个世界的从属者 ，就只能依附它而存在。所以，我们只能一而再，再而三的约束自己 。因为只有这样 ，我们才能在我们的这个世界里生活的更加舒适和从容。在现实生活中，我们往往是不敢爱，不敢恨的。其实，我是很羡慕小说里的那些人物的 ，无论是主角还是配角 。因为他们拥有一个相当纯粹的世界，他们可以在那里尽情的释放自己的情感。特别是对于我这样个性比较直接的人来说，我是尤为向往那样的世界的。你可能无法想象一个生性就特别直接的人 ，在现实的世界里生活的是如何的艰难 。我们必须将真实的自己隐藏起来，必须向所有人展示他们能够接受的一面。你知道那种不能做自己的感觉吗？那样的生活真的让我无法忍受。因为那样的我很是虚假，我曾在想 ，这样的生活真的有意义吗？每天带着一张面具见人，这样真的好吗？可是，如若不这样 ，我真的不知道还能怎样？你可能会建议说，你就做你自己就好了呀，管别人那么多干嘛 ，不是有一句话是这样说的“走自己的路让别人去说 ” 。可是，你确定这句话不是自欺欺人吗？如果你做了自己后，你周围的人都离你而去了怎么办？你也许又会说，那又有什么关系呢？如果有人在这个时候离开我 ，那么他便不值得我去结交。可是，我想说，你是不是太过于理想主义了。因为 ，在我们的这个世界里多半都是那些处于灰色地段的人，所以，我们只有将自己变为和他们同样色彩的人才可能同样的生存下去。不然 ，你想想，那些自杀的抑郁症患者，那些轻生的人 。如若不是这个世界已经容不下他了 ，他会选择那样一种特别决绝的方式去结束自己的生命吗？
所以，尽管我是那样一个直接的人，可我还是在不断的努力融入这个充满束缚的世界。于是 ，现在的我逐渐变成了一个凡事都看得特别淡的一个人，既无大喜，也无大悲。我不能说，现在的我很好 ，也不能说现在的我不好 。总之，这都是顺其自然的结果吧。达尔文不是说过“物竞天择，适者生存”吗？可能现在的我就是不断选择的结果吧。或许几年后的我又是另外一番模样 ，但这又能说明什么呢？其实，什么也说明不了吧 。（上述只是无稽之谈，仅供娱乐 ，不要深究。）
In a quiet environment, it is really conducive to people's thinking. It is not to be said, just now, I suddenly wanted to clear a problem that I had a long time - Why do I always like the world in the novel, and reject the world of realities? I think it is because the world in the novel is still more pure. I took a closer to find that the characters in the novel is roughly divided into two kinds of love and hate, but the entanglement between various characters is just two kinds of grievances. So, we can love someone in the novel, you can hate someone. In this way, the world in the novel has become very simple. However, those are just in the novel. In real life, can we really dare to dare to hate? Can we really do everything just to satisfy an emotion? The answer is definitely a matter of self-evident, because there is too much binding and embarrassment around us, we can't leave everything just for the so-called love and hate.
In real life, most of us is in a gray zone of emotional. We can't love it, you can't hate too much. Because the world we live has its own system, there is its own way to perform, and we use the from the world from this world to exist. So, we can only restrain yourself again and three. Because only this, we can live more comfortable and calm in our world. In real life, we often don't dare to love, don't dare to hate. In fact, I am very envious of those characters in the novel, whether it is the protagonist or aid. Because they have a quite pure world, they can release their emotions there. Especially for people who have compared such personality, I am particularly yearning in the world. You may not be able to imagine a person who is specially direct, how is it in a real world? We must hide the real yourself and must show all of them can accept. Do you know that you can't do your own feelings? Such a life really makes me unbearable. Because I am very false, I am thinking, is this life really meaningful? Take a mask every day, is this really? However, if you don't know if I don't know what it is? You may suggest, you will be yourself, do you do so much, don't have a sentence, this is said to "take yourselfThe way to let others say ". But, do you determine this sentence is not self-deceived? If you do yourself, what do you do around you? You may say, what is the relationship? If someone leaves me at this time, then he is not worth me to make. However, I want to say that you are too idealism. Because, most of our world is those in gray. People, so we can only survive the same survival with those who have the same color. Otherwise, you think that those who commit suicide depression, those who are light. If this is not, there is no one, Does he choose to end your life as a particular way?
So, although I am a direct person, I am still integrating this bondage world. So, Now I gradually become a person who has been a matter of everything, I have no big joy, no big sadness. I can't say, I am very good now, I can't say that I am not good now. In short, this is all Let's go with the result. Darwin not saying "Survival, the survival of the people"? Maybe I will be the result of constant choice. Maybe I have another look after a few years, but this is What can you explain? In fact, what else doesn't explain. (The above is just a nonsense talk, only for entertainment, don't be deep.)
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